Just wondering what your experience (of support) was like when you miscarried/had a CP/lost your baby?

Did people know? Were they supportive? Did you find that it was quite taboo to talk about?

We lost our little boy at 20weeks (had to decide whether or not to terminate the pregnancy, baby boy was supposedly 'incompatible with life') and people really struggled to support us. Most people pretended we had never been pregnant, didn't ever mention it, and almost acted as though our grief was distasteful or inappropriate. It seemed like it was something nobody wanted to talk or hear about.