My mom saved several dresses of mine and lots of toys and books. I'm so glad! It's very special. LO wore the same dress I wore for my first birthday to her first birthday party, and she loves playing with my old baby dolls.
My mom saved several dresses of mine and lots of toys and books. I'm so glad! It's very special. LO wore the same dress I wore for my first birthday to her first birthday party, and she loves playing with my old baby dolls.
pomegranate / 3858 posts
Everything (but nothing broken or dirty) My mom likes to hold onto things. It's been fun playing with old toys and dressing LO up in my old clothes!
clementine / 812 posts
My mom dropped a load of clothes off last weekend. I'm now trying to remove the cedar chest smell and oxidized formula stains. Such pretty dresses, I can't wait for DD to wear them.
She has all my old dolls and a lot of our toys in her basement. DD is going to love going to play at grandma and grandpa's!!! Screw LeapPads and iPads!
Edit: DD will be wearing the dresses and playing the dolls, not DH--happy Monday!!!
pineapple / 12566 posts
Just Legos and some dolls. My DS is now happily playing with both!
pear / 1503 posts
My parents saved lots, although most of it was destroyed in their house fire 2 yrs ago. Why little I do have (some books and stuffed animals) was stored in the shed. Because we have so little, what we do have is all the more precious. One of the books that was saved was my second favourite book as a toddler, and I'd actually mourned it, until they gave it back to me for Christmas a yr ago.
coconut / 8861 posts
My mom saved some especially my Barbies. Since I'm not having any girls, those will go to my niece. My MIL saved a Space Bag full of stuff I haven't touched. A lot of it is out of season and size for LO since DH grew up in a Southern climate.
wonderful clementine / 24134 posts
I'm sure she has a few of our outfits but she kept one big toy set for each of us to give to our kids. So I got the old style little people, my brother duplos and my sister the fisher price doll house set
pear / 1503 posts
@Cascademom: One of my few stuffed animals that missed the conflagration is Hugs from Care Bears (the pink one). I'm having a boy, but I still plan to give it to him. I don't think he'll mind! I have a lot of memories of dragging that bear around. So nice that your nieces get your Barbies. My LO will be the first grandchild on both sides.
GOLD / wonderful olive / 19030 posts
Not really, some clothes but that's it. Mom had 3 girls, so by the time the clothes went through #3, there wasn't much to save she said. My MIL has ALL of DH and his brother's toys, the kids love playing with them.
eggplant / 11716 posts
yes! But sometimes I think too much (because I have a small apartment with little storage). She saved some dresses, but like...tons of my old dolls and toys. And blankets--SO many blankets!
She basically saved anything expensive, one-of-a-kind, or handmade but LO can only wear so many crocheted sweaters, you know? And I don't have an attic or basement to store these things.
I have a love/hate relationship with it. I love it, but I hate storing it.
wonderful pea / 17279 posts
Yes, my mom saved quite a few things. I have my favorite books from childhood. Still at my mom's house are her favorite dolls from my childhood. She won't let go! LOL
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts
My mom has a few things (clothing, old cloth lunch bag, etc.) and a lot of our childhood books (Korean).
MIL saved ALL of DH's clothes. I kid you not, ALL of them. Needless to say we did a major purge when I was pregnant with DS.
papaya / 10560 posts
Tons of books which my toddler has really enjoyed so far, brio, Legos, dolls, all kinds of stuff!
pomegranate / 3577 posts
I'm actually glad my parents didn't save anything. (To be fair, a ton of it was lost to bad storage.) I'm glad because my MIL saved everything. And I mean EVERYTHING. So. much. stuff.
pear / 1503 posts
MIL has saved a bunch too, I just haven't seen any of it yet. Presumably, it will all come out of storage in the next couple of months. She has said that she wants us to use DH's little wooden bassinet. She's having a foam mattress custom made for it, so I'll plan to use it for the first several weeks, assuming it's comfortable for baby. He'll be swaddled, so I don't worry about him banging into the wooden sides at that age.
pomelo / 5607 posts
My mom saved some (I don't know how much), but as far as I know it was all destroyed in the flood here in Nashville in 2010. Part of me is sad, but I'm pretty sure she saved a lot of things that I wouldn't have remembered or wanted back, since she tends not to throw out *anything*. It's sad, but it saves me stress on figuring out what to do with things I don't want without hurting her feelings. And the most important thing, my bear my dad got me when I was 3 days old, has always stayed with me so it's fine.
wonderful grape / 20453 posts
Yes....like my first bra (which she "gifted" to my husband, hilariously enough). She didn't, however, save my barbies and little ponies!!! WUT!!!!!!
nectarine / 2210 posts
My mom saved a ton of books and clothes. Although not a lot of toys
pomelo / 5258 posts
I didn't realize that my mom might be a hoarder until I had LO. My baby shower was decorated with my old clothes on a line. My mom had her labor kit and my feeding/sleeping/pooping log for the first 6 weeks of life. So yeah, we have clothes and toys, and crib, and pack n play... and both my parents first baby shoes... and a bassinet my great aunt was in.
nectarine / 2784 posts
Yes, but not too much. A few special outfits and toys, and the most loved books.
pear / 1503 posts
@Corduroy: I've known for years that my mom was a hoarder. I would have had similar problems to some other PP with needing to purge if they hadn't lost most things.
Here's a case in point: after I moved away from home, oh about 16 yrs ago, my mom went through a really sentimental stage where she redecorated my room with all of my kid stuff. They had a plumber by a couple of yrs later to work on something in the bathroom (which was next to my room). He asked my folks how old their little girl was, and was shocked to find I was in my twenties!
cantaloupe / 6669 posts
@Torchwood: Fellow Nashvillian!
All of this is so interesting! My mom is actually the opposite of a hoarder and loves to purge, and she carefully chose the things she saved. I was sad to find out about a few toys that didn't make the cut.
DH's mom saved several toys which LO plays with at her house, but I don't think she saved any clothes. We haven't had a boy yet so maybe she did.
pomelo / 5607 posts
@daniellemybelle: Since you've been on the end of dealing with things not getting saved that you would have liked, any suggestions for not accidentally getting rid of something I shouldn't? I'm definitely more of a purger too, so it'll actually be hard for me to keep much at all. And yay Nashville.
persimmon / 1316 posts
Oh how I have mixed feelings about keeping childhood things!! :
I have been dealing with this a lot lately as my parents are cleaning out the house I grew up in to sale soon. Basically all the stuff my mom kept of mine over the years I am having to decide if I want to keep it or throw it away. Some things I am happy to keep and pass down to my daughter but a lot of stuff like old school projects, year books, art projects are just too much. I have no room to store anything, especially things I will probably only look at every 10 years or so but it is still sad having to throw away all these things from my childhood. It would have been easier for my mom just to do it as I grew up I think. My DH mom is bringing a bunch of his similar stuff with her every time she visits and it is just frustrating because we have no storage space for any of it and he isn't into purging as much as I am so it ends up just taking up space.
I think I will try and keep this in mind with my future kids.. try to only hang onto the really important stuff. Although I am getting the feeling that as a parent you think all your kids things are important enough to keep seeing how much stuff both our parents kept haha.
wonderful pear / 26210 posts
My mother kept one dress of mine, eventually, it will go into a shadow box.
I also have my Barbie Dream House and Cabbage Patch Kids. Part of the doll house is in our playroom now, but man, the stuff is OLD so it is pretty worn.
admin / watermelon / 14210 posts
nothing and i haven't saved anything ever except for a onesie that olive wore shortly after she was born. it's a preemie size and so tiny!
squash / 13208 posts
Lots of toys - too many actually and I pretty much donated most of it.
She saved 1 dress that I wore when I was a few months old - I took a pic of DD in the same dress and have our pictures with the dress hanging in the middle in her room - I hope one day I have a granddaughter to continue the tradition!
nectarine / 2115 posts
My mom saved several blankets, two beautiful hand-made (not by her) dresses, some knit booties, a little jacket, and a handful of toys. My daughter has worn all of the clothes-- she wore the knit booties home from the hospital! She loves the toys, and I love that we have such unique keepsakes. I will definitely be putting some things away for her children some day!
clementine / 806 posts
My mom saved 2-3 of our favorite toys, but that's about it (oh, and my crib, which she was upset we didn't want to use....).
My MIL, on the other hand, has saved really random stuff including my husband's little plastic training POTTY!! I kid you not - she has been keeping it in storage for 30+ years. Because spending $10 on a new, clean one is too much?! ick.
nectarine / 2115 posts
@MrsLonghorn: My in-laws really wanted us to use the crib they had saved! So awkward to explain why we couldn't do that. I let my husband thank them but then explain about how safety guidelines have changed!
cantaloupe / 6669 posts
@MrsLonghorn: Whoa, a potty!?
My mom saved my little brother's crib and we almost used it - it was 16 years old and we could have converted it so the drop side didn't lower - but ultimately we decided just to get a new one.
blogger / coconut / 8306 posts
She's got all my babysitters club books (I HAVE EVERY COPY BE JEALOUS!!!!!) and my little ponys in her attic for the kids.
She saved my sisters Polly pocket too. Chloe loves playing with it!
My parents still have our original Nintendo & we still play that. Anyone remember bubble bobble?
blogger / coconut / 8306 posts
@blackbird: the worst part was when you got to the last level, won, and realized you had to do it all over again!!!
wonderful grape / 20453 posts
@Mrs. Jump Rope: I was never that awesome. My friend had that game and i loved it! There was an iphone app but it wasn't as good.
persimmon / 1313 posts
She saved pretty much everything. My grandma is making A a quilt made of all of my baby clothes.
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