DH and I have been married almost a year now. He is recently confessed to me that he really wants to have a baby next year. Exciting right?! That would mean that we need to start TTC later this year which is fine. There is just one problem. My younger sister just announced that she is 5 weeks pregnant yesterday. The baby was completely unplanned and with a guy she has just started to see.

Does this mean that DH and I should wait now? I am afraid that if we have a baby next year, it won't be as big a deal or our baby will get shunned because my family is focusing on her. I also don't want to take away from her attention OR have people feel that the only reason we are having a trying now is because my sister got pregnant. Should we still try since we don't need to revolve our life around her? Anyone been in a similar situation?