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I get those scared feelings all the time!! This is our first REAL cycle trying. (I got my first period off BC last month, hence first real cycle.) I am such a worrier by nature, and I try not to stress and think of things like "what if I'll never get pregnant?". But the thoughts are still there. : /

I think that's a normal concern. I always wondered/worried if we would have a problem. When we decided to try I convinced myself to not think about it and to just enjoy the process. Seems to have worked, it didn't take long at all! It'll happen

I was petrified since being a teenager that I wouldn't be able to become pregnant one day. This turned into a serious problem when we were TTC as I tended to obsess - and it did not make TTC fun for either me or my husband (but he was a trooper). The best thing I did was take my fear and use it as a jumping off point to educate myself. I read as much as I could on the subject and learned as much as possible. It helped me to not focus on my fear of the unknown "what-if"

Yes, that's definitely a nagging feeling I get in the back of my mind! We haven't officially started TTC yet, but I only get my period like 2 - 3 times a year so I know I'm not quite "normal". I'm concerned about what that will do to our chances when we start trying... soon! Need to schedule a drs appointment soon.

when we were ttc, it's wasn't a hard-core trying - the husbone is in school right now & will be for a while longer, so our thoughts were if it happened, it was meant & if not, no worries, we would look into it further once he was done with school. it took 10 months & I did worry about it, for sure, towards the end. but I tried not to due to our agreement. it didn't really help that a girl I work with was also ttc at the time & was charting & everything & having a hard time. I think her frustrations & fears kind of rubbed off on me. she also had a couple of miscarriages, but she just delivered a beautiful, healthy little girl last friday, so all's well that ends well

I definitely get scared. My biggest fear is that I will never be able to get pregnant. I try really hard not to get discouraged when AF comes each month. My husband is good at helping me relax about it all.