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Yep, definitely been through those trying times. They suck, don't they, especially when you feel like you'll never see the light at the end of the tunnel? Sorry you have so much on your plate right now, but it WILL pass, and you CAN get through it, and be stronger for it. Good luck to you!

I am so sorry to hear about all that's going on for you right now. When it rains, it pours, right?

I have been in the type of situation (more than once) when it feels like nothing (and I mean nothing!) is going right all
at the same time. It takes every ounce of energy to get through it, and matters are only made worse by sleep deprivation.

I find that journaling helps a lot during these time. Or writing myself a letter. I know it sounds so simple, but it helps me to put things into perspective and also to prioritize. Also, the writing helps me to see what's working and what's just not working. Sometimes, it also helps me to hold a mirror up and see what I can do to be more active in making changes that will lead to more happiness.

Sending you the best during this tough time it sounds like you're doing an amazing job to make things better! Best wishes on your move.

That does sound very stressful. You're doing a great thing by being proactive. I find that yoga or doing something physical is really helpful to me in times of stress. And if there is any way to get any extra sleep (I know that would be hard with your husband being so busy with school/work and your lo not sleeping well) it can make such a difference in your outlook and how you feel generally. I agree that journalling can be useful on many levels. And finding or cultivating a support network. I know family isn't an option for you at this time, but if you have any friends you could reach out to it is always nice to have more people you can vent to and lean on when you need it. And of course we're here for you-- so that can be a good resource, too.

@Greentea: I'm so, so sorry to hear what a dreadful time you're having. It sounds very tough indeed.

I totally agree with the phrase "it never rains but it pours". I've had some awful periods in my life when it felt like everything was going wrong but you come through the tough times and, eventually, they seem so long ago.....

I'm sure things will get better for you really soon lovely lady. I will be thinking of you. xxx

I have definitely had some times where it seems nothing is going right and there is no end in sight. I think @jennyd's idea about driving your husband or having him take public transportation at least on occasion is a good one. Being cooped up sucks.

@Greentea:

We went through a rough time last year. It does get better with time. It sucks when you're in the middle of it, but once you're out of it, life improves.

I hope things are looking up for you soon! It's hard in the thick of things, but they have a tendency to fall into place. I think you're an awesome mom, and I love your opinions and viewpoint on these boards - I think that same attitude will carry you through!

I'm sorry to hear you're having a rough time, that's a lot on your plate. I think our babies are close in age, so I really hear you in how that raises the pressure. I also really struggle to feel good in the winter, and this winter is especially brutal, isn't it? I hope you and your LO feel better soon! Hugs!

lots and lots of hugs. sometimes it seems that the universe lines up to work against you. it is rough and very difficult to keep perspective.

i'm so sorry about having to give up your dog, that must be heartbreaking

@Greentea: Sending all the best your way. I'm so sorry to hear the update on your dog I'll be sending positive thoughts in your direction. I know I would feel the same way too