I've never looked at Mrs. Bee's phone for text messages before, unless she asks me to read her a text. I do sometimes see random texts when I hand her her phone (or plug it in to recharge).

As for my own texts, I don't think I've ever deleted a text before, but that's mostly because my texts are pretty boring. I don't really text very much outside of family and work.

Do you ever read your SO's text messages? And on the flip side, do you ever delete text messages from your phone?