I'm happily married and I am friends with past exes and former crushes. I just like to see how they're doing. Nothing more than that.
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I have before but not often and only usually out of curiosity. A 2 second look and I'm done.
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My ex doesn't do facebook. But I would if he did.
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I have a little peek now and again, yeah! I like to see new girlfriends, wedding pics etc! I'm very happy with DH and so there's no longing involved, just a bit of curiosity!
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Nope. One ex doesn't have a Facebook and the other wouldn't leave me alone after we broke up so I unfriended him. My friends list is less than 100 people and only a handful aren't family.
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Nah, I'm friends with my hs ex and we're friends on fb, but no one else
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Nope. I'm not friends with any of my exes on Facebook.
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Nope. I'm not even friends with them on FB.
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I fb stalk DH's ex
we're 'friends'. My ex friended me, which I thought was kind of a cool peace offering. I'm BFFs with his sister & we have a lot of the same friends. But then he unfriended me & sent me a note saying it was too hard for him to have reminders of me in his news feed but that he was happy for me & I looked happier than he'd ever seen me before. I don't really need to stalk him online, I can just ask ppl if I'm curious, but I'm not usually. He's happy for me, I'm happy for him. He even watched my MOH's (not his sis, my other bff) dog so she could spend the weekend of my wedding with me.
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I'm friends with all my exes on facebook. I also facebook stalk DH's ex-wife, but haven't sent her a friend request because that would be a little too weird! DH and his ex don't have any communication between themselves at all, but the funny thing is she got remarried days of when we did and they just had a baby girl a few weeks before our little baby girl is due! I'm such a snoop!
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My best friend is an ex-boyfriend, so yes, I'm fb friends with him (and his wife) and visit his wall frequently. My other ex-boyfriend, I looked him up once or twice, but never found him. Turns out he is on facebook (I found out recently through a mutual friend) and is married with 2 stepkids. He seems to be doing well. That's all I needed. I considered friending him, but decided not to.
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Oh yes, I am a stalker out of curiosity and nosiness. I like to google people when I'm bored, old crushes, and even just old friends that I've lost touch with.
When I was a senior in college, I randomly searched my KINDERGARTEN "boyfriend" (haha, yes I use that term lightly)... and found out he went to my same University! This wouldn't be SO crazy weird except for the fact that we went to kindergarten in Miami, FL... and my college was in the cornfields of Illinois!! This was also before google, so I think I "metacrawler-ed" him. And like a crazy person, I emailed him, he remembered me, and we got coffee. Haha.
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Nope! They are exes for a reason!
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I'm not on fb but if I was I would probably stalk my exes!! I'm super nosy like that!
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I had an ex that I was FB friends with and would occasionally peek into what he was up to. When I was 8 months pg he CALLED me (8years after our 'thing' ended... we didn't even really date) at 10pm on a Wednesday, totally drunk to congratulate me about the baby. I ended the conversation quickly, DH was ticked, and then 2 weeks later his engagement is broken off. After Prettybaby was born he unfriended me.
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@sweetchic: This is me too. I get genuinely curious about people i used to know. exs and otherwise.
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I've been friends with my ex on facebook for years and years, but he de-friended (is that a word?) me around the time of my wedding last summer... which I though was kind of lame. We used to wish eachother happy birthday and stuff, but not anymore I guess. I'm still friends with his sister and some of his friends so sometimes I see photos of stuff they do together. I generally don't seek it out, but I will look if it pops up on my main page thing.
Sometimes it feels weird that we no longer talk at all.
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umm I only have one serious ex, and I deleted him as a friend because he really skeeves me out now.
but I am still friends with past hookups - I don't really look at thir profiles, not too interesting.
we're 'friends'. My ex friended me, which I thought was kind of a cool peace offering. I'm BFFs with his sister & we have a lot of the same friends. But then he unfriended me & sent me a note saying it was too hard for him to have reminders of me in his news feed but that he was happy for me & I looked happier than he'd ever seen me before. I don't really need to stalk him online, I can just ask ppl if I'm curious, but I'm not usually. He's happy for me, I'm happy for him. He even watched my MOH's (not his sis, my other bff) dog so she could spend the weekend of my wedding with me.
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