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Yes, E is very sensitive. She does not do well with loud noises, yelling, etc.

One thing that worked really well for us specifically for daycare (E had a *rough* transition into the toddler room, and then another semi-rough transition when her main teacher left and a new one started) was to watch the Daniel Tiger episode that talks about how “grownups always come back”. We watched it several times over a week-long period and talked each time we watched it about how mom and dad ALWAYS come back. When I would drop her off, I would remind her that moms always come back. I found out recently that when her little buddies are upset, she tells them not to worry because their mom/dad will always come back! So, that one seems to have worked well for us.

I try to validate her feelings and then talk through them, but honestly, I don’t know if she is too young to do this or not. I also suggest she bring along a special small toy/stuffed animal who she can hold if she feels upset or nervous – I think that helps some.

@mediagirl: hope it helps!! Daniel Tiger has been a real lifesaver for us for lots of things, but especially the "grownups come back" song!!

Both of my LOs are super sensitive. They cry when the other cries cuz they feel bad. S is just starting to make the connection that I'll always come back. When she's tired the connection is lost though. H however is a completely said fervent story.

My son is very sensitive, he really takes it to heart when someone calls him a name or tells him that they don't want to play with him. It breaks my heart.

@mediagirl: My DS is very sensitive - we loved the book "the kissing hand" and another suggestion would be to pick out a special toy together and let her know that whenever she misses you to hug it and know you love her (with my DS we used small rocks in his pocket but he is much older)