I have 3 good girlfriends and after college (early - mid 2000s) we used to say we were like the gals on SATC because the four of us would regularly get together for brunch, shopping, movies, etc. But we all grew busy and a bit apart, one moved away (I even de-friended one but we eventually reconciled 14 months later).
Now we are all still friends, but not nearly as close as we used to be... it makes me sad, but things will ever be the same. We're not the same as we used to be!
cherry / 235 posts
I used to have that, but now I just have my best friend of 11 years.
GOLD / wonderful grape / 20289 posts
There are four of us girls that have been friends since preschool. But sadly we've also grown busy and apart 
grapefruit / 4800 posts
In college we used to talk a lot more like the SATC girls but I don't get together regularly with a group of girls like that anymore. Even if I did though I don't think we'd have the same time of conversations that we did in college. I guess it was a show focused with sex in the title so that's what it focused on but as I've gotten older my conversations have gotten a lot less sexcentric.
coconut / 8279 posts
I have a group of work friends that I make plans with, we go to events and dinners, shop, etc. I also have a group of friends from high school that I'm the closest to, they're my best friends. We live a ways away now but we still meet up quite often. I feel fortunate to have a kickass group of girls to have fun with.
GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts
We have a group of like 8 of us. We have a standing once a month dinner. But then various groups get together more for dinner, movies, shopping, or lunches throughout the month. All depends on work schedules and babies.
pomegranate / 3314 posts
I have the greatest friends and I feel very fortunate for that. Most of them are girls I went to college with in the Midwest and then moved to New York. We had a lot of adventures while in our twenties and now still see each other quite a bit, though things are a little more tame being that we're in our early thirties!
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
I never had that but wanted it SO BADLY. I wanted a sisterhood of the traveling pants type of group 
I have yet to find it.
pomegranate / 3890 posts
kind of. me and my girlfriends from high school are still really really close (and live close) and when we get together it feels like no time has passed and its lke were back in high school again (ahhh the good old days) but we prob all get together maybe once a month ;/
pomegranate / 3383 posts
I have a group of girlfriends from high school that I'm close with. We used to be a group of 7 but in the past 6-7 years it's become 2 separate groups. One group is married or in committed relationships and the other group likes to party and aren't as committed. We are all over though with different schedules and varying priorities and don't get together as often as we'd like.
nectarine / 2797 posts
I have a group of 10 girls from HS that I am still very close to, but unfortunately I moved away from most of them so I don't seem them as often. Whenever we get together though it is a great time!
pomegranate / 3244 posts
I have three main groups of friends: high school, college, and Peace Corps. Four if we add grad school to that list. From each of those groups I have 1-2 close friends. We are spread out all over the country (and the globe). I feel like it would be really weird and awkward if we all were in the same place at the same time, as everyone is SO DIFFERENT. I do make an effort to see everyone when I can though, though with some of these girls it has been more than 4 years since we've been physically present in the same place!
We were never like the SATC girls though. Too prudish for that, haha. And not nearly as stylish.
grapefruit / 4136 posts
@sweetchick: I do, I'm SOOOOO blessed with my girlfriends. There are 6 of us, we're all very different and joke that each of us serves our special purpose for each other. 4 of the girls have been friends since elementary school, I started hanging out with them in college and we all got even more close, I never had this before and I can't even express to you all how grateful I am for these girls in my life. We fight, we have real-life issues, we have times that we aren't as close, but when we all get together it's like we're just picking right up. We get together once a year without question for "Thanksmas" with husbands and kids and do a big meal with lots of food and drinks. We've been doing that for 5 years now and I hope it never ends! Last year we only had 1 kiddo there--this year we're going from the one to 5. WOAH haha! It's going to be a hot mess
cantaloupe / 6751 posts
I have a group of high school girlfriends that I'm still very close to, but due to our busy schedules, family, kids, etc, we hardly ever see each other It's always so much fun when we do get together though, although the topics of our conversations have shifted from boys & clothes to kids & work!
coconut / 8430 posts
I was close with my roommates in university but I've drifted apart from all of them since moving away. since then I have had a lot more male friends.
coconut / 8299 posts
Yes! There are 5 of us and we've all known each other since jr. high. One of the gals moved to NY and we see her 3-4 times a year. She comes every few months to hang out with us.The rest of us hang out at least every other month as a group. We usually make it a night out, like dinner, coffee, sometimes a bar. Usually we just end up having dinner and chatting all night. In between those group dinners, we'll hang out with each other 1on1 or groups of 3. People always comment that we look like Asian SATC girls. One of the girls is a kick-ass lawyer (single), one is a fashion editor (living with her BF of 20 years), one is in IT (divorced with 2 kids) and then there's me (Internet Marketer, married with 2 kids). The girl in NY is a fashion designer. It's fun when we get together because we all have such different lives and it's fun to gossip.
hostess / wonderful persimmon / 25556 posts
Nope. I've never been able to be super close to women, it's just not my thing. I enjoy spending time with women but just don't have the energy to be super close to a bunch of girlfriends. Also, I can't deal with the drama that women bring. 
persimmon / 1388 posts
Nope, I wish! I'm closest with (i.e., share "girly" stuff with...) a friend from highschool, but she lives in CA right now (I'm in WI). So even though we chat on the phone several times per month I don't feel like I have any close girlfriends left.
My 2 other closest girlfriends, I only see as a "couple." Meaning, we never have one-on-one time, it's usually just them and their significant other and DH and I.
I really, really wish I had a close-knit group of friends!!
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