I do, I think it makes me a negative person and I wish I didn't. Right now I'm holding a grudge against whoever got my baby sick. It's night 3 of no sleep and I'm a bit on edge!
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I'm sorry your lo is sick.
My SIL holds a grudge against people who bring their sick kids to her son's classes (he's 2). I don't hold one for long but my husband can hold a grudge for life.
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Sorry about your LO. I'll forgive but I don't forget
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Yes - Its one of my worst traits
People tell me to just "let it go" but I have no idea how?!? -
For a little bit, but usually not for that long.
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@mediagirl: I've done the same as SIL since my 12 yo was in preschool
It's not healthy 
@Mamaof2: and @mediagirl: My husband cannot let anything go, ever. Even the smallest of things! -
I don't. But I'm fairly amazed at my ability to become completely indifferent to someone who slights me. I don't have negative feelings about them, I just literally stop caring about them whatsoever. I don't know if that's healthy, either, but I think anger is toxic, so I guess I'm glad it's not part of my personality.
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I'm better than I used to be, but I do at times.
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I hope she feels better! I can hold grudges but usually not about getting sick..I figure germs are everywhere and it is hard to blame the right person.
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@BananaPancakes: anger is so toxic! My husband told me a quote he heard "anger/resentment is like taking poison and waiting for the other person to die"...it's pointless and you only end up hurting yourself.
As I've gotten older I've tried to become better at this bc it's just not healthy to be angry/upset with someone...but I have to admit that I do hold a grudge for a long time. I think I'm super nice and easy going but if someone betrays me or is just a total b*tch there isn't much that person can do to get back into my good graces. I have no problem being civil with them but I'll never let them back into my life in a meaningful way.
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I do for a couple of days and then I get over it. I'm MUCH better than I use to be.
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No not at all. Idk why. I can't stay mad long.
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I do. And it's not something I'm working on
My SIL holds a grudge against people who bring their sick kids to her son's classes (he's 2). 
It's not healthy 
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