I am really into dressing J more like a little man than a baby. There are a few baby things I love like sweater outfits and baby legs/leggings! But for the most part I prefer him in cardis and jeans, and the like.
For girls as well I love very beautiful and feminine dresses and dressing girls like little ladies (not adult, but not too babyish).
That is why I'm not usually a big fan of carters other than for basics, they are just a little too "cutesy" for me.
But everyone has a different style! What do you like?
(pic of J in his gap sweater outfit, and another of how I normally dress him)