My SIL is getting married in Sept and I am at a total loss about what to wear! I have looked at Jcrew, Ann Taylor, Nordstrom (online only since I am in Canada), mod cloth, and some local shops too but I am coming up empty handed.
Bridesmaids are in an eggplant purple, the guys (incl my husband) are in charcoal. I have no idea what to wear! Anyone have any cute dress ideas? Bonus points for links!!
wonderful grape / 20453 posts
Do you have a Dillards?
What about something like this? I don't think you can go wrong with a black cocktail dress
White House Black Market also sells nicer dresses!
wonderful pear / 26210 posts
I would have thought between JCrew and Ann Taylor, you'd have a lot of options...is it that you want something with more coverage than those stores typically have?
I would choose a light gray color, I think it would complement and not compete.
GOLD / pomegranate / 3688 posts
Maybe take another look at Nordstrom? That's my go-to for wedding wear. They have a new feature on their website that allows you to input information about your body and then it tells you which size to order in a particular dress, or if that dress won't work for your body.
It's hard to know what to look for without knowing more about your body type, but what about something like this:
http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/adrianna-papell-boatneck-lace-sheath-dress-regular-petite/3306604?origin=category&BaseUrl=Wedding+Guest
http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/adrianna-papell-lace-yoke-drape-gown/3491731?origin=category&BaseUrl=Wedding+Guest
http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/eliza-j-illusion-yoke-chiffon-gown/3728308?origin=category&BaseUrl=Wedding+Guest
http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/maggy-london-lace-sheath-dress-regular-petite/3758205?origin=category&BaseUrl=Wedding+Guest (if you can pull off yellow, this would look great with your husband's suit and would complement the eggplant)
http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/alfred-sung-woven-fit-flare-dress/3677658?origin=category&BaseUrl=Wedding+Guest
nectarine / 2631 posts
I am allll about a LBD! Buy a nice high end one and you can wear it to multiple things- just jazz it up with some cute statement jewelry!
cantaloupe / 6869 posts
Definitely an LBD! You will get tons of wear out of it and it doesn't have to be really basic. I really like the first option that Blackbird posted.
coconut / 8861 posts
Check out the American Living line at Macy's and JcPenney's. JCP has the best sales (so many online codes). I've purchased a bunch of American Living dresses in my size online and had them fit perfectly.
grapefruit / 4442 posts
persimmon / 1379 posts
@septca: Truth-I LOVE that last dress you posted, but I was worried when I read the reviews from older women. Does it look like a grandma outfit? And the first one is gorgeous too, but my SIL doesn't like lace, which shouldn't impact my decision but it totally is!
@cheert16: I like this idea too--do you have any examples? I feel like I am an expert at casual clothes and feeling a little stupid trying to sort out dress outfits!
@cascademom: I haven't heard of this line...will google now! Thank you!
@bunnylove08: Gorgeous!!! But way too fancy for me to feel comfortable. But I love it!
@blackbird: No Dillards (that I know of!) but we did just get WHBM and I should go and check them out!
I was also thinking about Kate Spade options, but are they too cutesy?
Thank you all!!!
grapefruit / 4442 posts
@woodentulip: are you looking for a more casual dress? what length are you going for, budget and is this a daytime or evening wedding?
persimmon / 1379 posts
@bunnylove08: I am not looking for a casual dress (or at least what I consider casual--nothing that would fall in the 'sundress' category!), I am willing to spend more than normal, but probably not more than say...$400? Ish? And I generally don't feel that I look good in long dresses, so around knee length (not tea length though!)....
I am surprised that I couldn't find anything that I could imagine wearing at Ann Taylor or JCrew. I am so disconnected from the world of clothes these days!
cantaloupe / 6131 posts
I love Macys.com - its so much easier than going through their racks and you can return to the store.
My go-to wedding outfits are stretch lace dresses. Comfy and forgiving but formal looking.
http://www1.macys.com/shop/product/adrianna-papell-sleeveless-lace-sheath?ID=611559&CategoryID=5449&LinkType=&swatchColor=Charcoal#fn=COLOR%3DGray%26DRESS_LENGTH%3DKnee Length%26sp%3D1%26spc%3D35%26ruleId%3D%26slotId%3D
grapefruit / 4442 posts
@woodentulip: what about these?
http://www.anthropologie.com/anthro/product/clothes-dress-occasion/4130047438080.jsp#/
GOLD / pomegranate / 3688 posts
@woodentulip: ha ha, because 1/2 of the reviewers are 50+? I don't think it's old lady looking at all - I love it and would totally wear that dress.
persimmon / 1379 posts
@bunnylove08: I 
so many of those bhldn dresses! Have you ever ordered one? How is the quality?
@septca: Yes! That's why! It was a top contender and then I saw that, and wondered if I would look crazy. What do you think about the dove colour? Too white? I was also wondering about navy, though my MIL is wearing navy as well...I think.
nectarine / 2631 posts
@woodentulip: I LOVE the last dress that @septca: posted!!!
Lemme see if I can find some LBD/ statement necklace options!
nectarine / 2631 posts
here is a cute (plain) LBD from kate spade:
http://www.katespade.com/sicily-dress/NJMU3948,en_US,pd.html?dwvar_NJMU3948_color=001&cgid=ks-clothing-dresses#start=11&cgid=ks-clothing-dresses
Statement Necklace:
http://www.katespade.com/give-it-a-swirl-triple-strand-necklace/WBRU8538,en_US,pd.html?dwvar_WBRU8538_color=862&cgid=ks-jewelry-necklaces#start=10&cgid=ks-jewelry-necklaces
You got yourself a cute outfit! (obviously everything is just what I could find quick... and in my favorite coral! but you totally could do this in any style YOU like!) Also you could probably find a cuter/ cheaper LBD in that style if that is what you are looking for!
grapefruit / 4442 posts
@woodentulip: No i haven't but I would believe they are high quality since I see they are Jenny Yoo and other high end bridal designers
GOLD / watermelon / 14076 posts
@woodentulip: Check Boden...the quality of their dresses is amazing.
blogger / watermelon / 14218 posts
@woodentulip: you MUST try ModCloth!!!! I just ordered two dresses to try on for a wedding in a few weeks. I was SHOCKED at the prices and selection... I just hope they're good quality and are flattering. I've heard nothing but good things. I think from @grizz 
persimmon / 1379 posts
@mrs. wagon: I looked at their website but didn't love them! What ones did you order? Can I jump on your coattails?
persimmon / 1379 posts
@lawbee11: I also love boden, but wasn't inspired by much on their site right now--the dress selection is small at the moment!
persimmon / 1379 posts
@bunnylove08: I am going to spend a bit of time online looking through their site now!
persimmon / 1379 posts
@cheert16: I love this whole outfit! I just went to the closest Kate Spade store to try it (or most of it) on...NADA! Not even a dress that was similar enough for me to feel confident trying it on...
GOLD / pineapple / 12662 posts
Just a few LBD options from WHBM:
Dress 1: http://tinyurl.com/om5mwhg
Dress 2: http://tinyurl.com/orplmul
Dress 3: http://tinyurl.com/qaqnoq3
nectarine / 2631 posts
@woodentulip: awwww!!! I wish you coulda tried it on!! Let's see what else I can find!
GOLD / pineapple / 12662 posts
@woodentulip: Here's another couple of WHBM LBD options with the exposed zipper (similar to the KS option above . . . the belt is optional in the first):
Dress 1: http://tinyurl.com/p2dahzl
Dress 2: http://tinyurl.com/leugp7p
nectarine / 2631 posts
http://m.bananarepublic.gap.com/product.html?dn=bp554945012&dv=1&shopid=2&pdn=bc69883
Thoughts? You could still do the same shoes and necklace!
I am still searching!
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