I had my first doctor appointment for this pregnancy today and all we couldn't find a baby, just an empty sac. I'm so devastated and even my doctor had to hug me while I cried. It's not likely that my dates are off, as I'm very regular and keep up with my cycles pretty well. She even said with a sac that big she should definitely see something. I'm supposed to go back next week for another ultrasound just to be sure and if we don't find anything she's going to schedule a D & C. We've already told our 2 year old that there was a new baby coming (I'm sure she will forget but it's still upsetting). I was just caught so off guard my all of this. The shock of a surprise pregnancy, coming to terms/finding excitement and now this.