I've been feeling pretty great about our family of four, but something snapped last night. Our 17 month old was up all.night.long with teething pain and our 9 week old has been refusing to sleep anywhere but our arms for longer than an hour.

I'm feeling like I screwed up my newborns sleep. He was such a sleepy little guy and would sleep anywhere anytime. Now he can't be put down ever or he wakes right up. Most of the time I feel pretty level headed about all of this and can remember that this too shall pass, but this morning I'm just spiraling.

Our ped gave us a bunch of guidelines at his 2 month check up and I feel like I'm failing all of them. Having him sleep in the crib (the only place he'll sleep besides our arms is the rock n play), having him nap in his nursery, having a bedtime routine (I'm struggling to work that out with our toddlers routine at the same time, plus our newborn doesn't really seem to care when I try a routine...)

I need encouragement or wine or coffee or all