Do most of you have the VIP membership? Is it worth it?

I know that if you like them on FB you can get a discount, but I don't want to take the chance that somehow it would show up that I did. Trying to not let people know we are TTC. I think that I read on Weddingbee that some people made a fake FB account to get the discount but that seems silly to me. But I do like to save some money.