I'm really struggling to figure out what to do for my mom this mother's day. Her mom passed away last month, and we have two hard firsts coming up - May 1st would've been her 72nd birthday, and obviously her first Mother's Day without her is coming up. She told me she had a bit of a meltdown when the Mother's Day stuff started showing up in stores.

If you lost your maternal grandma as an adult, was there anything special you did for your mom that first Mother's Day? I'm kind of at a loss here. I was trying to think of some kind of gift that would honor my grandma too but am having trouble coming up with anything.