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Ok I think that's pretty weird. I would be a little hurt that he never said anything (or invited you to the wedding), but at the same time, I would wonder if he might have some underlying feelings for you and therefore hid it? It might be a stretch, but it is similar to something I've run into before.
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@Raindrop: Lol - it was their first . We found out about the second one after he was born.
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I remember DH had a friend in grad school who did this. They were really good friends and out of the blue he tells DH that he got married in the Philippines and his wife was living there. DH was shocked, but he just figured he was a private guy and had his reasons.
Some guys are just really weird like that.
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@Freckles: I would have been okay with him telling me he got married out of the blue because you know people are busy. But it just felt like he didn't bother to tell me especially when he chatted with me so much during that time. Sorry I guess I just feel that's different.
On a side note a guy friend of mine just e-mailed the other day saying congrats on my wedding anniversary (5 years) and that he got married a few weeks before hand. I'm not upset at him since we haven't e-mailed in 2 years because he moved out of state and got busy with his new job there. It was out of blue and a big surprised(!) because before we lost touch ... I remember marriage was not something he thought was in the cards for him. So it was a very nice surprise to hear from him after all this time and how happily married he is.
I guess I wish my "friend" had taken the time to just tell me about it especially since we were communicating a lot during that time. But it seems the consensus is still guys are weird.
btw: Thanks for the comment still.
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@Raindrop: oh this was during grad school. They hung out all the time, and this happened when he went to Asia for a visit. So weird!
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@Freckles: what?!?? Haha okay that is similar! Guys be weird.
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