When I was 18 I was in the delivery room with my stepsister. There was a really scary moment when her BP dropped to 55/28, and later they had to stop her epidural because she wasn't pushing correctly. And then she proceeded to push for two more hours. She got an episiotomy and tore allll the way back on top of it. When the baby was coming out I saw the head and for a split second thought it was the whole baby and that it was so small! (I had never seen a birthing video!)
I was so traumatized that I didn't want to have sex for like a month afterwards, and bagged it on top of the BC pill!