grapefruit / 4817 posts
@runsyellowlites: Lovely. I wonder why they asked them to watch their boat?
pomegranate / 3244 posts
I've been to some open casket funerals/viewing. Apart from that...
-In 9th grade my biology class took a field trip to a cadaver lab.
-I've also been to the bodies exhibit.
-When traveling in Honduras I was on a bus, on the window seat, and saw a guy splayed out in the middle of the road. He was very obviously hit by a car as he was running across the (busy) 4-lane highway. So. Much. Blood.
coconut / 8305 posts
@BananaPancakes: they were just there & I think all the officers were trying to oversee the search.... Really what are you gonna tell the sheriff, no?.. Lol
nectarine / 2063 posts
As a nurses aide I had seen a few and had to do after life care. I helped clean them up before the mortuary took them.
pomelo / 5228 posts
No (also Jewish). I am very thankful that we don't do open caskets! If I ever go to a funeral with an open casket, I won't be getting close.
hostess / wonderful persimmon / 25556 posts
Nope. I've been to two funerals, both closed casket.
persimmon / 1286 posts
went to my first wake last month, which was my first time seeing an embalmed body. but a year ago i saw a homeless man on the street who had died, people were trying to resuscitate him but i think he had been gone for a while. very sad.
watermelon / 14206 posts
Only my grandmother's, in 2001 and S the morning after I delivered her last March. I had asked the nurses the night I delivered to clean her up a little and give me time before I viewed her.
Both times I felt...uncomfortable. I don't know any other way to describe it.
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21628 posts
Yes. I've been to several open casket funerals. I also saw the body of a man who was hit by a car on Christmas.
pomelo / 5791 posts
Way too many to count. Many funerals, starting at 6 years old, as well as being in the hospital when someone passed (a few different times).
pear / 1861 posts
Yes, a lot. All funerals I have been to are open casket.
@keiki_mama: That's what I was thinking of when the thread stated dead body. LOL
bananas / 9628 posts
Yep. A bunch. And I've been present during two of my granparents' deaths. Doesn't bother me. Dead animals make me flip though!
pomegranate / 3577 posts
Yes, funerals like most. I was privileged to be with my husband and his family when my FIL passed away in in-patient hospice. I'll never forget that last moment. He was a wonderful man.
And also that year of gross anatomy in school. We were so scared when we lifted the body out of the tank and couldn't bring ourselves to pull back the tarp!
blogger / coconut / 8306 posts
Yes. Almost every funeral I've been to was open casket.
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22276 posts
Yes at funerals (too many) and a suicide. I could have done without them all, the images are burned in my head.
grapefruit / 4823 posts
yes, at funerals. and also, about 10 years ago we had a really bad snow storm and the kid(19) that lived upstairs from us died while trying to shovel his car out. so when his family pulled him from his car I saw him.
honeydew / 7811 posts
Yes, many. First was my grandfather in middle school. Went with my mom shortly after he passed and was there to witness the funeral home coming to pick up the body. :(. Several open casket funerals/viewings after that.
Also experienced something interesting during my study abroad in Eastern Europe. We attended a church service and there was a dead man laid out on a table, his mother and widow crying over him. Very common there for the body to be out in the open for a several days long mourning period. The church was super crowded and I didn't have a choice but to stand right next to the body!
hostess / papaya / 10540 posts
I've watched someone die in front of me and open caskets at funerals, so yes.
apricot / 402 posts
eek, yes. I have had to help with autopsies before during my pre-med days ( the things you do to get into medical school yuck!) then it got worse when we were spending 9 months my first year, 3 days a week, in the gross anatomy lab. Lets jst say, my appetite is still ruined easily by thinking about it. Bless all of those donors though! What a wonderful thing to do in the name of medicine.
blogger / honeydew / 7081 posts
Yes, I was at the hospital shortly after my FIL passed.
coconut / 8681 posts
At quite a few funerals, yes. DH and I also witnessed a man attempting to walk across the freeway and be killed. It was horrible. I still feel sick to my stomach just thinking about it.
nectarine / 2466 posts
Yeah lots, I'm a nurse. Luckily I'm a nurse in long term care so they've all been old people. I couldn't work in a hospital and see younger people, too hard for me.
grapefruit / 4056 posts
Too many to count, both personally and professionally (I am an NICU nurse, so after death care is a party of my job). Poor S has already seen 2 by 14 months old, we have had 3 family members pass away each year, and I took him in with me to the viewing for my grandparents.
clementine / 797 posts
Only at open casket funerals or wakes, maybe three times. I was a bit creeped out. Husband sees them regularly given that he's a cop in an area with heavy gang activity.
pomelo / 5093 posts
Yes, several open casket funerals. Also, I was with my father when he died, and I was able to spend time saying good bye to him last year after he died. It was really powerful, and I'm glad I did it.
clementine / 984 posts
I've been to many open casket funerals (my parents always brought us, even as young kids). I've also witnessed a tragic accident that caused someone to die instantly. Through work I've had to review some pretty terrible accident scene photos for wrongful death cases, and I've been to the morgue. Since we went to so many funerals as kids, I'm used to seeing elderly dead bodies, but watching young people die is awful, I can't forget those images/memories..
cantaloupe / 6923 posts
Yes. I held a lady last week as she died. Not a relative, a patient. But that wasn't any easier. I have such a problem with death.
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