I desperately need help! My 9 week old will not nap! She is a great night sleeper but her daytime sleep is a constant struggle, we fight to get her to sleep, then the second we put her down she wakes up. Occassionally she will sleep a few minutes then wake up but her longest stretch is like 20 minutes which is after several settles and is rare. She will sometimes sleep on me or in our boba but she is starting to fight that too. I need to prepare to go back to work in 3 weeks and our care provider has another child (2years) she watches as well, so she can't just have her sleep on her all day.

We have tried the 5 s's, we always swaddle, she won't sleep in the swing or bouncer, I'm at a total loss for where to go next... My husband wants to try having her cry it out (we are in a major standoff over this), I'm not sure I'm comfortable with that at this age, but I'm running out of options, and in turn arguments against it.... Help!!!

Additional info: she gets about 9 overnight hours of sleep, and MAYBE 2 total daytime hours combined