I bought a big purse at TJ Maxx to use as our diaper bag, and 4 mos later it is falling apart. Ugh!

It's time I bought a 'real' diaper bag, but I have no idea which one to get.
Here's my criteria-

- Under 100$ (if it's *really* amazeballs, could push to 120$, but it'd have to like, be made of rainbows)
- Gender neutral (as in your husband wouldn't mind carrying it)
- Either comes with or has room for a changing pad
- DURABLE!

Seriously, trying to choose one is giving me a headache! Help!