DS, 3yo, is loud. Now he’s getting bad reports at preschool for being too loud. I’ve always known my kids are loud but they went to a very loud DCP. I chalked it up to cultural differences and we never really made an effort to correct their volume. My daughter adjusted on her own but DS is just getting louder. I don’t think this is a physical issue because he has no trouble hearing us.
I feel like I remind him to speak more quietly a thousand time a day. I ask him to repeat himself more quietly when he asks for something too loudly. I haven’t introduced inside voice vs outside voice because his outside voice is way too loud as well.
What else should I be doing? Is there a Daniel Tiger or something?
So far, it hasn’t been a problem at school, but I am constantly reminding him to use his quiet voice and it does get annoying at times. I think the most important thing for now is to realize that we aren’t telling him to shut up. I always tell him, “you can talk, just do it more quietly” (because he’s also a talker). He’s aware of it, but hasn’t really figured out how to control it. I wonder if drama classes would help him when he’s a bit older?
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