I know this topic is cause for discussion (and stress!)

Another holiday tip/gifting question- my son attends 2 preschool programs. School #1, the class parent asked for a large cash donation that will cover gifts for all the teachers, staff and the director. I don’t personally think the director should get a holiday gift because that’s like how you don’t tip the owner of the salon or the manager of your building but maybe that’s just me and I’m letting it go.
Now, school #2 is a smal program where the director is also my sons teacher. She has a non-teaching assistant who manages the scheduling/payments etc and then there are 4 young teaching assistants. I want to give the girls holiday gift cards but need to email the assistant for the spelling of their names, so then do i need to give her a gift too? And how about the director, i mean she is his teacher?