Hellobee Boards

We are TTC#2 and I am not 100% ready. But I will be by the time (currently imaginary) #2 gets here! We always knew we wanted 2-3 kids, and I have some health issues that pressed the TTC issue before I was really *ready* (I am maybe 70% ready). My husband is also strongly of the belief that he's rather have about 5 years of diapers/no sleep/craziness and just get it over with than space out our kids. And I am too afraid of what will happen if I let myself have my body back for a few months (like, I may never be ready for #2).

We were more focused on the child spacing than on whether or not we were ready!

We had a child spacing plan, and we executed on it! Not very romantic.

i never got baby fever either time. I just knew I didn't want C to be an only child, and 2ish years seemed to be a good age difference, so here we are-- they will be 22 months apart. Nothing romantic about it at sll!

Hubs is totally not ready, but we always said we wanted our babies close in age, so when Xander hit 6 months, I went off birth control! We're both not ready, but I figure we'll just figure it out, haha! I'm desperate to keep to our original plan!

ETA: Join me in trying for #2!!! We can be POAS buddies again!!!

@mrsjyw: do I need to send you some champagne, strawberries, and massage oils?? BROWNCHICKENBROWNCOW

My LO is 26 months and we started TTC a few months ago. I am not 100% ready bc I really really really love our routine right now and can't imagine changing things up by adding a newborn. But then I see my friends kids and what a big age difference even 2 years looks like and I really want my kids to be buddies from a young age...so we are really hoping for a baby soon so our kids will be around 3 years apart

Happened by chance when LO was 13 months old but resulted in a miscarriage. I wasn't ready until 9 months later and was able to conceive DS2 on the first try.