Hmmm. I've been thinking! I posted yesterday about E's misbehaviour but the more I think about it the more I can see that she is attention seeking. Alongside her deliberate defiance and potty shenanigans, I'm also hearing "Mummy, look at me!" and "I cant do it" 10,000x per day.

I feel as though I give E plenty of my time - I get down on the floor and play regularly, we do lots of fun things like the park, soft play, we have a once a week dedicated afternoon where I drop the baby at grandparents' and take E swimming/dinner out......

......but its clearly not enough. I cant increase the time I spend with her, but can I increase the quality? Can I make it more obvious or significant to her?