Last month was crazy awful because I started off wanting to be chill my first month trying and quickly found myself researching more and more, agonizing over BD plans, researching every nuance on Dr Google, taking apart OPKs so I could get a better view and jumping my husband even when he wasn't into it. Even without my CP, it was a crazy stressful emotional month which I cannot do over and over.

This month, DH and I are trying to be more chill but still effective. However, my natural tendency is to dive in headfirst, so it is a daily struggle to not stress myself out.

Anyway, the title pretty much explains it all, but what do you do to make sure you don't get sucked up into the baby making vortex?