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how long did you date before getting engaged?

  1. Rubies

    hostess / eggplant / 11068 posts

    2 years!

  2. Bea

    kiwi / 578 posts

    Nearly 4 years...seemed like forever at the time! When we started dating I was in my first year of college and he was in his junior year of high school...we were babies.

  3. Periwinkle

    pear / 1879 posts

    It was about a year after we started dating. Very short, in my opinion! Things moved very quickly in the beginning.

  4. mlm2934

    grapefruit / 4311 posts

    a little over 4 years - felt like an eternity, but we started dating as HS seniors and got engaged as college seniors. I'm not too proud to admit that I cried when his cousin got engaged a few months before us after knowing the girl for barely a year.

  5. Running Elley

    coconut / 8681 posts

    A year and a half...almost exactly!

  6. Mae

    papaya / 10343 posts

    2.5 years. We met in Feb 2007 and got engaged in Oct 2009. It seemed like a good amount of time to me at the time. I was going through a lot of life changes during that period (finishing up school, getting a job, getting my first apartment on my own) and I really wanted to establish myself by myself before getting married. I didn't drop hints I was ready for marriage until May/June of 2009 and he proposed in October so it worked out well for me

  7. hellocupcake

    persimmon / 1171 posts

    At 2 months he bought the ring, people kept asking how he proposed so he did a formal proposal at 4 months and we got married 7 months after our first date. We met in January and were married by November (:

  8. Alivoo01

    wonderful olive / 19353 posts

    We dated for 3 years before he popped the question.

  9. yoursilverlining

    eggplant / 11824 posts

    About 2.5 years; although we both knew on the first date that the other was "it" for us. It went by fast and the proposal was a complete surprise!

  10. Charm54

    cantaloupe / 6885 posts

    2.5 years...getting engaged was so much fun!

  11. cmomma17

    honeydew / 7811 posts

    Met in February 2008, "official" by March 2008, engaged in August 2010, married in September 2011!

    So over 2 years! Felt like FOREVER! haha We were also shacked up before we were engaged.

  12. Ra

    honeydew / 7586 posts

    A little over 2 years.

  13. MrsTiz

    cantaloupe / 6800 posts

    Proposal at 2 years 2 months. Our wedding rehearsal was on our 2.5 year dating anniversary.

  14. bunnylove08

    grapefruit / 4442 posts

    5 years before he proposed

  15. fancyfunction

    grapefruit / 4085 posts

    A little under 2 years.

  16. LuLu Mom

    GOLD / wonderful olive / 19030 posts

    We had a bit of whirlwind...he proposed one year to the day of us meeting.

  17. teamjse

    nectarine / 2274 posts

    13 years

  18. Mamasig

    pomegranate / 3565 posts

    About 9 months - started dating in March 2010 and the church was booked in December 2010. We started talking about it in July.

  19. Marfi

    clementine / 794 posts

    Just barely 3 months (took a leaf out of my parents book, they only dated a month before engagement)

  20. littlebug

    honeydew / 7504 posts

    Met Labor Day 2004, "officially" started dating Labor Day 2005, proposed NYE 2009/2010, married Oct 2010. Sooo....just over 4 years of dating till engagement. We had one short (3 month) breakup in there, too, in 2008.

  21. Fronkinzankinsbride

    kiwi / 550 posts

    3 months. Lesbians...

  22. tinyperson

    pomegranate / 3858 posts

    11 months...we got married 5 months later!

  23. SweetMamaM

    pear / 1743 posts

    2 years & 2 months... I was pretty sure from early on that he was special, though

  24. mrs.shinerbock

    pomegranate / 3779 posts

    2.5 years, but 2 years of that was long distance. We were legally married 6 weeks after that, but we didn't have the wedding until a year later.

  25. looch

    wonderful pear / 26210 posts

    7 months or so.

  26. Ginger333

    kiwi / 543 posts

    We dated 6 years before he proposed - but we met early in High School ... we will celebrate 20 years together next year.

  27. prettylizy

    GOLD / papaya / 10206 posts

    7 years! Felt like forever!

  28. Aimed

    apricot / 469 posts

    8 months and then had a year long engagement.

  29. jhd

    coconut / 8079 posts

    we dated for just over a year before he proposed. we got married exactly one year after getting engaged.

  30. artsyfartsy

    cantaloupe / 6692 posts

    7 months!

  31. BabyMats

    nectarine / 2031 posts

    @Ginger333: wow! That is awesome!

    We were together two years when he proposed. Engaged for almost two and a half years

  32. penny

    pea / 16 posts

    We met July 2009...moved in together in November 2009 and engaged May 2010...we held off on wedding planning for about six months to enjoy being engaged and then went guns blazing on wedding planning and got married May 2011. It seems quick now that I type that out!

  33. lavender

    grapefruit / 4554 posts

    7 years with a 1 yr engagement

  34. mediagirl

    hostess / wonderful persimmon / 25556 posts

    7 years of dating. We had known each other for 9.

  35. loveisstrange

    pineapple / 12526 posts

    3 years and 2 months. We got married 17 months later.

    I knew I was going to marry him from a couple months in.

  36. bhbee

    cantaloupe / 6086 posts

    a little over 2 years . . . it would have been longer but when I moved to NYC for DH (1.5yrs in) I told him, don't let me move here and move in with you unless you are serious about getting engaged later this year. we were long-distance until I moved, so that forced the issue a bit.
    but it worked out beautifully, we got married 8 months later and now it's been 7 years since we met and almost 2 years as a family of 3

  37. psw27

    pomelo / 5220 posts

    4 years of dating, on our 4th anniversary in fact.

  38. babycanuck

    pomegranate / 3105 posts

    7 years. Married at 8. Together almost 12 now.

  39. lilteacherbee

    cantaloupe / 6791 posts

    We dated for 4 years before getting engaged, married at 5, and it's been 7.5 now. We were high school sweethearts.

  40. Modern Daisy

    grapefruit / 4187 posts

    We dated for 1.5 years before getting engaged but it was actually our 3rd time dating and we had known each other for 4 years.

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