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max time you've been away from your baby?

  1. JoJoGirl

    cantaloupe / 6206 posts

    For people who were away more than. 24 hrs, did you pump and dump? We are going away for around 24 hrs when LO will be 14 weeks and staying in a hotel.. Not sure how to handle logistics of trying to store pumped milk and whatnot.

  2. Smurfette

    GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts

    @JoJoGirl: Can you have the hotel put a mini fridge in the room? If you tell them it is for medicine, they have too. We did this when we went to St Thomas last year since mini fridge's weren't in every room at the Ritz. We just wanted it for drinks.

  3. littlek

    GOLD / squash / 13576 posts

    @JoJoGirl: I was away from my LO when he was 6 months old. I pumped and saved everything in the fridge at the hotel. It was a PITA to get through security with (allow extra time) but it was worth it!

  4. LazyLightning

    pear / 1664 posts

    I have lots of these.

    Baby's age: 0 - 7 days
    Max time you've been apart: 1 week
    Who was caring for LO: NICU

    I couldn't see her during the first day due to my having an infection.

    Then...

    Baby's age: 9 days
    Max time you've been apart: 10ish hours
    Who was caring for LO: my mom

    My husband went to the ER... I had to go with... fun times.

    Then....

    Baby's age: 7 weeks
    Max time you've been apart: 1 day
    Who was caring for LO: MIL

    My MIL just wanted to have her overnight. No problem! It was nice to have a break. They are about a half hour away from us.

  5. hellobeeboston

    honeydew / 7235 posts

    @JoJoGirl: yes - pumped and dumped when I was away for a week. I did a night away one other time and the hotel had a fridge and I brought freezer packs and I saved everything in bags!

  6. Aimed

    apricot / 469 posts

    Baby's age: 6 months now, 4 months then.
    Max Time Apart: 5 days
    Caring for LO: My sister in law.

    DH and I travelled to look at properties in a new city across the country that we are planning on moving to in the fall. I was a little worried but he was fine and we were fine and it was all good! It was also nice to get some marriage time!

  7. LuLu Mom

    GOLD / wonderful olive / 19030 posts

    Baby Age: 7 months (she's almost 10 now)
    Amount of Time: not quite 24 hours, away for a wedding.
    With: Grandma and Grandpa

    I can handle an overnight but I think I will struggle with multiples. We will be leaving her for a long weekend after she turns one in October and this is already freaking me out. 1 day I can handle, 3-4 is going to be rough.

  8. mamabolt

    nectarine / 2797 posts

    Now LO is almost 13 months, and the max time I've been away is 4 days, 3 nights. I've done this twice now for business trips when she was 7 months and 10.5 months, and both times my DH and his mom were watching her.

  9. edelweiss

    grapefruit / 4923 posts

    baby age: 6 months
    amount of time away: 36 hours
    LO with: husband

    i recently went for a quick overnight trip for a bridal shower/bachelorette party. i actually moved up the time of my return ticket because i wanted to be back for bedtime.

    @JoJoGirl: i stayed at a hotel where i could rent a mini fridge and microwave. i would rinse the pump parts in hot water, then wipe with pacifier wipes, then sterilize in microwave bag. i poured the milk into storage bags, and layered them with ice packs in a cooler bag for the trip home.

  10. oliviaoblivia

    pineapple / 12793 posts

    Baby age: six and a half months.
    Amount of time away: 2.5 hours
    With: MIL

    Needless to say we are a little codependent,

  11. Pepper

    pomelo / 5820 posts

    Baby's age: 4 weeks
    Max time you've been apart: 3.5 hours
    Who was caring for LO: DH

    I had to go to a viewing for a friend's family member when he was 3.5 weeks. It was an hour away. DH watched him. I will be going back to work in November, so I will be away for 8.5 hours 5 days a week My mom will watch him 4 days a week, and DH will watch him on his day off. DS will be about 5 months.

  12. cheert16

    nectarine / 2631 posts

    Baby's age: 3 months
    Max time you've been apart: 6 hours while I was at work
    Who was caring for LO: MIL for 2 hours, then DH for the rest of the time!

    This was when he was 3 weeks old and I only worked for like 3 weeks then was on summer vacation- when I go back full time in September, it will be a big change!

  13. BlueWolverine

    pear / 1510 posts

    Baby's age: 6 months
    Max time you've been apart: 8.5 hours
    Who was caring for LO: DH or day care.

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