Hi all,
Just curious to know how long it took to conceive after baby #1. I know it may sound so naive on my part but my 1st was fairly easy (conceived on 1st try) but trying for my 2nd isn't as smooth as I thought it would be.
Hi all,
Just curious to know how long it took to conceive after baby #1. I know it may sound so naive on my part but my 1st was fairly easy (conceived on 1st try) but trying for my 2nd isn't as smooth as I thought it would be.
admin / watermelon / 14210 posts
We got pregnant with Olive in the first month. Shocked that it happened so easily because it took us two years with Charlie.
Hope it doesn't take much longer for you!
persimmon / 1465 posts
I'll be interested with responses to this. We have just started ttc #2 this month and am already antsy for it to happen!
cherry / 135 posts
@mrsbee. Wow so glad it happened so quickly after your 1st! But wow to the two years for #1. Any tips on how you dealt with the waiting? I'm all about timing is everything but only if my heart listened to my brain.
@cupcakemama: so glad I'm not alone! I feel like my anxiety level peaks when it's time for AF to arrive.
pear / 1554 posts
Our experience was the opposite. It took quite a while to make baby #1. With baby #2, I got pregnant a month before we were officially TTC.
GOLD / wonderful grape / 20289 posts
We haven't started ttc for #2 yet but I'm also worried it won't happen as quickly as before. I got pregnant on my second try, miscarried, then again got pregnant on my first try.
Hope you get your next baby soon!
pomegranate / 3980 posts
I was on birth control for almost 3 years after having #1 and I got pregnant within a few weeks of taking out my mirena.
admin / watermelon / 14210 posts
@umlo: i actually had two miscarriages before getting pregnant with charlie, so i've been pregnant four times. i think i'm probably quite fertile.... i just had a problem with it sticking. the first two times i got pregnant it was the second month of trying, and the third and fourth times i got pregnant it was in the first month.
most moms i know generally conceived their second child much faster. i even have a friend that had her first through ivf and her second naturally.
cherry / 135 posts
@mrsbee: I've also heard the same. My sisters subsequent children were very easy for her but I know everyone is different. Here's to positive thinking!
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22276 posts
I got pregnant on our 2nd cycle trying (I am only 11 weeks pregnant now), but I am hoping when it comes time to TTC baby #2 it happens just as quick...we got very lucky. We will probably start trying after LO turns 1 so that they will be (hopefully) 2 years apart.
coconut / 8299 posts
The first time, it took us 6 months to get pregnant. The 2nd time, one month! It was way faster than we thought. We had planned on it taking at least 6 months or longer (like the 1st time). But nope, 1 month!
cherry / 135 posts
Thanks for your comments everyone. I'm encouraged to hear about your journey and here's hoping to a BFP next month! Will keep you all posted.
persimmon / 1465 posts
I needed to hear all these comments! I worry that it won't happen with #2. Our biggest hurdle is my age - I'm 40. (gulp). So we don't have a lot of time and have a self imposed deadline as well. Cross everything for me ladies!
hostess / wonderful honeydew / 32460 posts
We didn't try for the first--she was a surprise! We're not trying and not preventing for #2. I'm still nursing, but started my period so interested to see when I get pregnant again.
cantaloupe / 6146 posts
@Mrs. Bee: I've heard a lot of the same, and know several who had the first with lots of fertility treatments and struggles--and #2 and #3 were quick!
blogger / pineapple / 12381 posts
@cupcakemama: I feel you! Good luck, I'm sure you'll be fine mama!
pear / 1614 posts
Lots of baby dust to you TTC #2 ladies. I have heard the same as previous posters - took a while for the first, first or second month for the second. I hope for a quick BFP for #2 once we start trying - we tried 18 mos for our first, he's 9 weeks old now, and we'd like our kids close together.
cherry / 135 posts
Thanks everyone for the positive thoughts and baby dust!
@cupcakemama hoping for a BFP for you too! Keep us posted!
cherry / 135 posts
just wanted to update you all. I got my BFP!!! still early but wanted to share the good news! Now I am trying to remember all the do's and don'ts of pregnancy. I am pretty sure I did a good amount of don'ts already! Thanks again everyone for your good thoughts and baby dust!
cherry / 135 posts
Thanks all! Definitely hasn't hit me yet although I am sure the morning sickness will be around the corner.
@cupcakemama: not sure EDD. I have to go to the OB next month but I am assuming mid-Nov.
GOLD / wonderful pomegranate / 28905 posts
It took us a while for bb#1 so I'm hoping we're like you other ladies where bb#2 happened MUCH quicker!
GOLD / pomelo / 5167 posts
ooo congrats!
We got pregnant without really trying but not really preventing the second time around... so i'm just "fertile"
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