I took 13 weeks with my first. I ended up getting a new job during my maternity leave and went back part time.
But now I'm pregnant with #2, and being part-time I have zero benefits. My boss is super flexible, and would definitely give me the 12 weeks off (even though the company doesn't qualify for FMLA, only 8 employees) but I don't think we could afford that. I'm probably looking at only a 6 week maternity leave Maybe I can try and stretch it to 8 weeks, but I'm not sure. I will also have a 2 year old at home.
How long did you take off for your 2nd or 3rd or 4th, etc?