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How many SAHMs do you know in real life?

  1. PurplePeony

    pomegranate / 3113 posts

    Two of my good friends and several women I know though an organization I'm part of are SAHMs by choice. I also know a handful of women who are SAHMs by circumstance but would prefer to be working.

  2. MrsH

    honeydew / 7667 posts

    One. The others all WOH.

  3. CupQuakeWalk

    coconut / 8475 posts

    A TOOOONN. Most women I know don't need to work, so they just don't...ever. Like, their kids are all in school all day and they still don't work. I wouldn't be able to do it because i'd get bored.

  4. artsyfartsy

    cantaloupe / 6692 posts

    None. A few "friends" on facebook but no close friends or family. Which means I won't get much support if I decide to do so after baby is born.

  5. artsyfartsy

    cantaloupe / 6692 posts

    @TurtleDoves: That sounds awesome!! Bored sounds better than work to me! But I've also had a pretty bad work month.

  6. Dandelion

    watermelon / 14206 posts

    I know of 3 in my area off the top of my head.

  7. Ree723

    grapefruit / 4819 posts

    Loads but there is an international divide.

    All of my American friends - working full time 6-12 weeks after their LOs were born

    All of my Australian friends - SAHMs, including me, and I love it!

  8. SugarplumsMom

    bananas / 9227 posts

    1. But I do know a few non-working student moms. It's pretty common for new expats/immigrants since it takes a few years to learn the local language.

  9. CupQuakeWalk

    coconut / 8475 posts

    @Danizaur: lol, yes bored > work....but dang, get a hobby, ladies! Your kids are like 16.

  10. teamjse

    nectarine / 2274 posts

    Zero

  11. cyndistar3

    pomegranate / 3980 posts

    Most of the ladies at my church are sahms so I'd say I know at least 10.

    Eta: I should add that even though I know a lot of them we aren't really close because of our age differences so we only really talk at church.

  12. skibobrown

    pomegranate / 3388 posts

    There are plenty of them in town where I live. My friends are almost all working moms though. My only friend who was a SAHM just went back to work a few weeks ago, so now I don't have any more SAHM friends.

  13. JessicaMcB

    apricot / 427 posts

    When we lived in the city I literally knew none. Now that we moved to a small town (and am a SAHM myself) I find almost every woman of child-bearing age who obviously has children stays home. Being a resource town where all the men make great wages though it tends to make sense.

  14. yin

    honeydew / 7917 posts

    None

  15. Mrs. Lemon-Lime

    wonderful pea / 17279 posts

    Not a single one. I know a few moms with WAHM/I WOHM schedules, but even they have FT childcare to keep up with the demands of their job.

  16. HellOnHeels

    clementine / 899 posts

    Right at this moment, I know 2, maybe 3 but I can't remember if she's working or not, lol. There's a few that are still on mat leave, but I'm pretty sure they'll be going back to work.

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