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I voted twice a week. Sometimes more, sometimes less. I voted that neither of us are happy. DH whines that we never have sex but pre LO we did it with the same frequency but I was always the one feeling like it wasn't enough so I think he's just whining just to whine lol

I'm not unhappy with frequency but since having DD we don't get the same chances to connect in other ways like cuddling. We can't lay in on weekends & just be near each other. It's rare that we are ever on the same couch together & we go to bed at different times. Not only am I not getting the connection I need outside of sex, because he goes to bed earlier than me, he often wants me to stop cleaning the kitchen from dinner to come have sex with him & it's really hard to get in the mood when all you want to do is finish what you're doing & unwind or knowing that afterward I have to get back to cleaning the kitchen. It's just hard to get in that mental space for me so I often feel like everything leading up to sex is awkward because my mind just isn't there or I'm annoyed after because I don't just get to enjoy it.

I voted twice per week but sometimes it's more and sometimes it's less, it pretty much depends on how I feel since I'm still in the first trimester. DH complains though that he would like it more though for sure.

My husband is only home 3 nights of the week. Now, with a LO in the mix, we are at 1 x per week, and it takes effort. Sleep is such a better option most of the time...we both wish it were more, but it just isn't happening right now.

I really try for once a week but usually it's more like once every 2 weeks. I have almost no sex drive which I hope is a side effect of breastfeeding, and it seems like when I'm in the mood, something gets in the way. I'm okay with the low frequency but my husband isn't.

Once a week. I am happy, he's not. We used to do it A LOT more, but my drive is nil these days.

Probs 2-3 times a week but all at the weekend, we are too tired during the week! It was actually less pre LO as I was on bcp which made made me uninterested. We're both cool with how things are now.

Everyday for us, we might skip a day here or there but we're pretty consistent. DH is happy, I am neutral.. I have no problem doing it so often, but I would be just as content with 2-3x a week.

@Skadi: Just out of curiosity, what prompted this post? I'm all for contributing but not if it's something you're going to mock/criticize/whatever on your blog or YouTube...

@Skadi: I have to say, I didn't answer just in case it was a poll for your blog too. Not in a mean way. It might be a good idea to clarify if it is just out of interest and not for use elsewhere on the Internet.

@Skadi: Nothing mean was meant by it and nothing about it was mean. It was an honest question. I know OF your videos and what they're about but I have never watched them so I don't know where you get your topics or ideas from. Hence me asking.

About twice a week on average. We are happy. =D

But right now we are TTC so we're dtd about every other day. LOL

@stiletto_mom: ha ha, you only have 3-4 days when DTD actually counts each month for TTC purposes.

@Mrs. Lemon-Lime: Don't tell him that. Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh