I'm losing my mind here with my almost 13 week old. He's up every 5-45 minutes from 8pm-12 then up at least twice after that. I know we need to help him self-soothe but we are not going to let him cry. Is this something they just learn to do? He's not hungry or fussy even.

Also, do you think we should drop the 5pm nap? He's a great napper. He sleeps 3-4pm.

Any suggestions in getting babies to fall back asleep on their own? We do hold him and twice out of the billion wakings I nurse him to sleep.