Lately we haven't been very pleased with our daycare. LO is 10 months old. LO's current teacher isn't as upbeat as his last one was, and only seems to report the negatives of the day (didn't nap well, fussy with food, etc).

Today we picked him up for lunch and my Mama Bear instincts kicked in. She was feeding him his baby food, and holding his hands down, forcing the spoon in his mouth, and he was crying and spitting it back out. He has not been a very great solids eater, and doesn't eat a ton of it still for us at home, but almost every day at daycare the notes say he ate it all. Now I see why. I've always taken a don't force it, positive experience approach with solids. Would you be upset? Would you talk to her directly or go to the director?

I didn't like seeing him cry and having a negative experience. I'm still upset, and not thinking very clearly about it right now.