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hahahaha so funny. Um my number would probably be 2-3 as well, and DH like every night lol
Since DS fights sleep, we don't get to bed until midnight or later most nights, so it doesn't happen as often. It's been maybe 1-2x a week since we started back up again.

It depends. There are times when I feel like 2x/day is my ideal (which sadly is a little more than DH would prefer), but on average maybe 4x/week? Maybe 5? It's definitely increased over the past few years

I'd say maybe 2-3 for me, DH is happy with whatever he gets LOL.

Since being pregnant, my drive has significantly increased, big belly and all! So sometimes DH needs a break and I get maybe 4-5 times per week.

@Coco Bee: I was hoping that I wouldn't be one of the pregnant ladies that had an aversion to sex. It definitely has been the best so far! I'm kind of worried about what's to come after delivery/healing and such. I've gotten spoiled!

I'd like to everyday and so would DH but it's not as easy as before being 31w pregnant so I'd say 3 times for now....and up it later when I'm not pregnant. I still have my strong drive but sometimes it kills the mood when you feel like Buddha....:(

I'm lame, twice a week is good for me. We just don't see each other much

I had ZERO sex drive while pregnant and DH did not want to have sex with a pregnant lady... so yeah. lol

My ideal number would be 2-4. Right now, it's like 0.

Ideally in a perfect world with little stress, plenty of sleep, and young libido's I think both DH and I would be 3-4x week. In real life I'd say 2-3x a week but the reality is about 1 a week - sometimes more, sometimes less. Many times we both acknowledge the desire but feel too lazy or tired to see it through. haha.

@HeatherlovesKenny: exaaaactly. If we have to talk ourselves into having the energy and then, its just mediocre, I'll get irritated. I'd rather not at all. Dh still would. He doesn't even care if i'm awake or not:) So not me...

3-4x a week is ideal for both of us. We don't usually do it that much though.

for me 2x a week is good. DH would of course probably prefer it to be 4-5. since getting pregnant it was not happening 1st trimester as I was super sick and that was the last thing on our minds. second trimester hit and I was horny, it was about 3-4. well, we just learned my cervix is measuring short so the Dr said no sexual activity. At the moment its nothing

We do it pretty consistently at 3 times a week. However before I had the baby and all throughout pregnancy we were doing it every single day. For some reason since having DD my drive just isn't as insane. I am great with 3 or 4 times a week now (since 6 weeks pp). DH would probably do it 5 times a week or more like we used to...but I am just not up for that right now!

Right now I am more than okay with once a week, but I know Hubs would prefer 3-4 times a week. He's been sweet about it. He did ask if we can make-out a few times a week though, as another way of being intimate.

my sex drive is crap right now, I hate trading sex for sleep.

So in my normal life 2-3 (which would make us both happy) but right now I will barely manage 1.

My number would be 1-2, his would be 5-7! I tried to compromise pre-pregnancy and do 3, but now we're down to 1 and I don't even want to do that! haha

Wow.... I guess I'm boring, but I'm ok w/ just once a week. That might be because LO is 6 months old and still waking up every 2 hours. (I'll choose sleep over sex any day) *sigh*

@Shimmer: Sadly I am one of those that has a version to sex, it just doesn't not appeal to me at all. I have lost all drive. I really hope it comes back, I miss that intimate time with my DH and I think we will both be less edgy! haha

I don't think either of us has lost the "drive" per se, but a blossoming belly just makes the idea of sex, well...not sexy and a little weird to both of us! We have both done our best to overcome this...Prepreg, we did it 4-6 times a week. But since the belly has really exploded, we're more at like 2-3x. And the belly gets in the way when we're both trying to "pretend" like it's not there and that we're having a hot time without a baby in between us....DH didn't want to do missionary at all because he didn't want to be on top of the baby, for weirdness and safety reasons. I told him it would be okay and just to shut up and do it (lol) and sure enough, with every movement, my belly hit against him and we both ended up busting out laughing - kind of a mood killer when your baby is thumping your torso, haha!

@Mrs. Sunglasses: oh my! A whole year?

For me? 1-2x. DH? 7!!

@Mrs. Sunglasses: wow! Kudos to the both of you for being so strict!