Did you try to do something about it or did you let it go? If you did something, what was it and did it work?
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this was a really tough issue for me. i asked the staff several times to try and put him in his crib for a nap even if he didn't seem tired (it's hard to read his cues), but it didn't happen, and i don't think he would have been able to fall/stay asleep. after a few months, i decided to let it go. my other option was to pull him out and get a nanny, but taking everything into consideration, letting go of this was the "best" option for us.
you could try talking to your daycare about ways to help your LO fall asleep, it might work!
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LO goes to a small home daycare only one day per week. There aren't many babies and the older kids are pretty loud. He was sleeping waaay less there then at home. I brought in a sleep sack and white noise and that seemed to help. Also one of the assistant teachers babysits for us so she knows LO's sleep routine. She tries to be the one to put him down for a nap when she can.
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I've had to let it go. =( But she hardly sleeps at daycare and I hate it. I feel like they don't even try and also that they don't watch for her (very obvious to me) tired signs.
My LO isn't a crier, and that's the only signal they know for tiredness. She'll happily "play" all day, getting more and more zombie like. By the time I pick her up some days, she's "happily" sitting, almost in a trance. It SUCKS.
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Ugh! Sore subject! My 10 month old has maximum 30 minutes sleep a day at daycare every day and she looks like a zombie when we pick her up, with black circles under her eyes. But the things she needs, they cannot do. They wont even let her have a sleep sack - everything is against their safety rules.
We had no option but to let it go. We counter balance it by putting her to bed almost as soon as we get her in - half five some evenings. It sucks.
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Like PP, I've had to kind of just let it go. My LO barely sleeps at daycare. We've tried white noise, lovey, and now we've even sleep trained at home but nothing works. Like @Anagram: I often feel like they're not trying, but then they have actually recently gotten her to sleep like 15 mins in the PNP, so maybe they are. Otherwise I like the daycare and she is tired but ok by the end of the day. Plus she only goes 3 days a week.
I will say it is easier to handle now that she's almost a year. Some days I used to just hate sending her when she was like 4 months old and I knew she wouldn't sleep. But, we got through it. Good luck!
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I had to let it go. R naps for maybe 15 mins at daycare. It's horrible. As a result, I let her nap at home from 3:30-5. Dinner and bath. Back to bed at 6.
On the weekends its not unusual for her to sleep 15 hrs a night and nap for 3-4 hrs at a time. A lot of people think that's 'amazing' but I miss my baby
After summer break she'll be in the toddler room with a universe nap so hopefully it'll be better!
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Sounds like a lot of people end up just having to let it go.
I think I will end up there, too. We will probably just continue to try to get her to catch up on sleep on weekends and hope that she does better once she moves into the toddler room (they all take naps at the same time there).
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We (daycare and us) just had to let it go because no tactics were working to get her to nap more. I just put her to bed really early so she got enough sleep overall.
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@catlady: It did get better for us once he moved into a room where there were designated nap times. In the meantime, it helped for them to put him in a crib that was tucked in a corner, so he wasn't AS distracted by what was going on. He also was somewhat good about falling asleep in a swing, so that happened a lot. Otherwise, I just had to accept it wasn't going to be great and that he would be going to bed pretty early.
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@catlady: he doesn't sleep terrible well but not too bad either. Mostly I have let it go but actually daycare had some ideas that they implemented and he now usually gets at least an hour nap in. So maybe daycare has some ideas how LO could sleep better? For us it was the placement of his cot and not all kids going to bed at the same time to keep it quieter.
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Let it go and she started napping on schedule at 14.5 months.
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