Do you ever tell your MIL, FIL, BIL or SILs to stop talking to you about something they should deal directly with your DH or SO about? I am so freaking irritated today with my BIL and his annoying text messages.

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I work hours that aren't friendly for daycare drop off in the morning...6am-3pm. DH works at a hospital and his hours vary but he can usually take LO to school before he goes to work.

Something came up at his work and they needed him to cover two weeks of overnight shifts for a coworker with a family emergency, 7pm-7am. We asked his Mom if I could spend the night before work days so I could leave for work (at 4:45am) without transporting a sleepy baby to her house in the morning. So far, it has worked out well....I spend the night and MIL gets to hang with LO. LO is also a good sleeper so she is usually still asleep when DH gets to his Mom's house at 7:30am. He changes and feeds her then drops her off at daycare... so far, his Mom hasn't had to feed or change LO once. She usually goes to work at 10am so we aren't making her late, etc.

We have a dog and he can't be left alone because he gets destructive. My FIL offered to watch him on nights that I stay with my MIL. He loves our dog and says he enjoys having him there....

My BIL and his SO live with FIL because they are mooches. They rarely hold jobs and when they do have money, they spend on lavish gifts for each other....they say they want to move out but have been living with FIL for 4 years without paying rent or anything.

Well, this morning my BIL sent me text messages saying that he is upset we are using his parents...

"You guys decided to have a family so stop putting LO on my Mom and the dog with Dad."

"Why can't you just leave the baby alone in the morning and go to work?"

"The next time my Dad tells you that you can leave your dog here...you need to clear it with me."

OK, I am soooooo irritated. I wrote back and told him to deal with DH but he continues to send really horrible text messages.