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As soon as AF gets on her way (stillll spotting which is a sign she's coming), this will be our first month of trying again. EDD from m/c #1 is a few days away and it reminds me of how long I've been at this....
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@ValentineMommy:
Your body might just need a cycle or two to heal. I would try not to jump straight to it ruining your body (although I know it's hard to not expect the worst!)I'm 9 months past MC and still trying. I had a "WTF?" discussion with my doctor yesterday. She did 6pdo testing and hopefully I'll hear those results today. Other than that, she said come back in 6 months if you're not KU and we'll look into other interventions.
I hate that it means more waiting, but that's also what she said at my annual last year, and I got KU without trying, so I'm trying to hold on to that hope!
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@Tidybee:
Hugs. I feel your pain @MaryM: I was saying that the procedure was going to ruin my insides before it even happened lol. Then, when I had 8 weeks of bleeding afterwards, I was pretty darn positive it messed me up. After my BFN last month, I was 100% positive. Haha - I know it's not necessarily the case, but my head just can't stop going there.
I hope you get some answers from your testing -
@Tidybee: hugs mama
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@Tidybee: So hard...
@ValentineMommy: I had the same worries after my first D+C...a little less so this time around, but only after a more or less "normal" AF arrived. It really can take a little while for things to get back to normal. But if you're really concerned (say, in a few months), you could ask them to take a look at your lining--I have a mandatory saline hysterosonogram coming up before we can transfer another embryo... The worst case scenario (Asherman's) is still very treatable!
I hope this gets easier and you don't have to worry for long... 
I'm currently actively trying to *arrange the circumstances by which I can* conceive. Our cycle "au naturale" didn't work, obviously...so I'm in the process of arranging my frozen embryo transfer for just after Thanksgiving. Wishing all of you ladies lots of luck...hopefully we'll all be pregnant again very soon!
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@FliegepilzHut:
I'm glad to have you ladies.
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@Jess1483: That's a good way to think of it. I, too, have gotten pregnant each cycle I have tried (even though they ended in loss) so I am slightly worried if things don't work out quickly that something is "wrong."
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@Tidybee: Hugs, I am so sorry.
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So, TWW on cycle 2 after mc. Stressed to the max.
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@ValentineMommy: Don't stress, lady!
Can you get out and get your mind off things?
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@FliegepilzHut: I wish!!! I'm at work....and obsessing. I have OCD and this is not helping. Lol!
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@ValentineMommy: I totally get the OCD (not formally diagnosed, but still)... Can you get some "flow" going at work...and then when you get home, maybe figure out a way to go walk/talk with DH...or get a babysitter and go see a movie/get dinner? Or maybe, just cuddles with DS will help!
Hope you feel better soon!
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@FliegepilzHut: I wish!!! I am actually formally diagnosed OCD and PPA (which the mc amplified exponentially). It's SO hard to focus on anything else. I'm actually sitting at my desk doing guided meditations right now lol. I'm having a really hard time concentrating at work, honestly. This takes over my whole brain...I hate it! I definitely think I need to take some walks after work and at least get my blood pumping!! Thank you for the support!!!
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@ValentineMommy: I am thinking of you and praying so hard for you. Maybe come up with a short-term project to focus on? The waiting is the worst!
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@Jess1483:
Thank you!!! How are you feeling?
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@ValentineMommy: Doing pretty well. A little anxious. I pushed for betas and got my first one done today. I was out of town this weekend, which helps. I may be starting to feel a little queasy (yay!) but I might also be imagining it.
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@Jess1483: Hugs and prayers for a h&h 9m for you!!!!
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Fingers crossed for this cycle. It's our first time TTC after an early MC in Sept.
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@Mrs. Lemon-Lime: FX!!! This is our 2nd cycle TTC after our mc in June. (I bled for 8 weeks following the m/c so it took awhile to get back into it). I was SUPER bummed last month when we got our BFN. Got preg with DS on the first try, as well as the first try when we had our m/c. I was positive since we didn't get preg on the first try (last month) this time, that it meant I was now broken. I'm still fighting those feelings! It's so hard. Major FX for you!
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@Jess1483: Sending hugs your way!
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@Mrs. Lemon-Lime: FX for you! Sending lots of good and sticky thoughts!
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@ValentineMommy: you are NOT broken, but I totally understand what you mean. I thought I couldn't get pregnant until I finally did 20 years after my very first cycle.
@FliegepilzHut: thank you ^^ sticky baby!
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@Mrs. Lemon-Lime: thank you!!! Dh doesn't understand when I tell him I'm afraid I'm broken!! I am having a ton of symptoms this tww....so major fingers crossed
Your body might just need a cycle or two to heal. I would try not to jump straight to it ruining your body (although I know it's hard to not expect the worst!)
Hugs. I feel your pain 
Hope you feel better soon!
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