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  1. mlm2934

    grapefruit / 4311 posts

    does anyone get a stabbing pain in their boobs during TWW? All morning I've had this weird dull localized pain in my lower right boob... more annoying than painful.

  2. Shutterbug

    grapefruit / 4703 posts

    @Ash: Wow I would want to punch her. I can only imagine that your other SIL wanted to also (assuming she had trouble getting pg since she did IVF?) Sounds like the competitive SIL is an insensitive brat.

  3. Ash

    honeydew / 7909 posts

    @doxielove: Wooooooooow! You go girl! Hahahahahaha :))

    @Shutterbug: yes, and actually they don't even speak but now I am realizing why!!

  4. doxielove

    persimmon / 1388 posts

    @Ash: I know, I'm feeling ambitious today

  5. LindsayInNY

    bananas / 9229 posts

    @Thehistoryofus - Yesterday morning's POAS was another BFN. I've had two dreams in the past week where I was pregnant so I tested Friday and Sunday since no AF and nothing. I feel kinda crampy this morning but went to the bathroom and still no AF. I fefeel like I'm going to turn into a rollover...

    @DoxieLove - Yes please!!

  6. MrsTiz

    cantaloupe / 6800 posts

    @Ash: Damn, she's s little bey-otch huh? We must have the same SIL, because when I told her about my BFP she IMMEDIATELY said "Wow! That's cool! Well I think we're going to start trying again this month.. you know we had a honeymoon baby, so we won't have any trouble" Seriously? Then I didn't get any morning sickness, which we later found out was because I M/C'd at 6weeks, SIL says "HA! Next time you'll have morning sickness for sure!!!!"

    If that doesn't make you want to kill someone, I don't know what will.

    @Lindsay, sorry I hope that dream isn't a bad sign because I had one the other day I was preg with TRIPLETS!

  7. Ash

    honeydew / 7909 posts

    @MrsH: that's how I feel 100%. The second line when I POAS in August came as a huge shock to me... I didn't know how to feel... I was scared and excited and immediately started planning our future of being parents. And then 2 weeks later it was ripped away from us... I truly feel like the only way I can heal is to get pregnant again.
    @Ladybee: I can't imagine how you must feel. I pray you get your sticky baby... *hugs*

  8. Ash

    honeydew / 7909 posts

    @doxielove: I'd say hahahaha! I love it! I have zip zero zilch amount of motivation today! Enjoying my day off, that's for sure!

    @LindsayInNYC: Blaaaaaaaaaaaaah! Don't you wish you could take a peek inside and see what's going on in there?!

    @MrsTiz: Oh my gosh! We DO have the same SIL! I guess I would never ever think to say anything like that to anyone. When I told a friend of mine that we had miscarried her response has made me quit talking to her. She said "I just had babies that clung on and didn't want to go anywhere sooner than 40 weeks". Seriously, who says that? Thanks for the reminder! As if it's not hard enough.

  9. LindsayInNY

    bananas / 9229 posts

    @MrsTiz - Haha, OH MAN!! I've had two dreams lately so I work up convinced it was some sort of sign. Apparently not. At least not yet. So annoying!

    @Ash - Seriously! It's so frustrating. Either give me my period or don't. At this point, I don't care either way, I just want something!

  10. mlm2934

    grapefruit / 4311 posts

    @LindsayInNYC: I had the most vivid BFP dream sat nite, it's so hard waking up and realizing its not real.

    @MrsTiz: crazy crazy SIL - makes me angry just reading those comments!!

  11. Ash

    honeydew / 7909 posts

    @LindsayInNYC: Last month I had a dream I was pregnant with a girl and this month I had a dream I was pregnant with a boy. AF came both months. LOL! But every time it happens, I'm like "whaaaaaaaaaaaaat! Totally pregnant!!" Good luck!

  12. Ash

    honeydew / 7909 posts

    Do you girls think a onesie like this would be appropriate for SIL having baby #1? It took her 2 years to get pregnant (via ivf like I mentioned earlier). I don't wanna offend her but I thought this onesie would be adorable! Thoughts?

    http://www.etsy.com/listing/104036385/free-shipping-i-was-worth-the-wait

  13. mlm2934

    grapefruit / 4311 posts

    @Ash: I don't think it's offensive, just totally sweet!! plus the gift wrapping is SOOO cute!

  14. doxielove

    persimmon / 1388 posts

    @Ash: I think that's very cute!

    I've started a February thread, if any rollovers are interested:
    http://boards.hellobee.com/topic/february-poas

  15. MrsTiz

    cantaloupe / 6800 posts

    @Ash: I feel the same way, I actually cried the day I got AF after my miscarriage because it had been so long and I just wanted to feel normal again, so now I know i'll have a rough time on May 23 (EDD) unless I am growing another little. TTC is hard & scary, so it's natural to feel like it's hard to heal after a loss. But guess what? You got pregnant once, you can do it again. You're gonna be a fabulous mama, and maybe the first one wasn't ment to be your baby..maybe it was going to be a crazy drug dealing gang-banger or something & your sticky baby is going to be the dream baby you deserve!

  16. marionberry

    pomelo / 5041 posts

    @mrstiz: @ash: I'm so sorry you've had to deal with such inconsiderate family members. I think I would be giving them a piece of my mind, lol. And it's stories like yours that have me worrying daily if this is a sticky baby. I sure hope it is. But I'm so sorry you've both had to go through that. Crossing my fingers you both get lucky again soon.

  17. T.H.O.U.

    wonderful clementine / 24134 posts

    Wow, those are some crazy family stories! I would have a hard time holding back on them.

    @Ash: I think that is a really cute baby gift.

  18. Turd Ferguson

    pomegranate / 3160 posts

    Blah, just venting. I totally thought I was totally good for ovulating on CD13. Thennnn...my temps have been freaking crazy. I know my sleep has been awful (like, getting up every hour for almost a half hour...), but still, there is zerrro pattern emerging (oh, and yes, I definitely DID use override to adjust my O date...haahah).

    Boo.

  19. Mrs. J

    pomelo / 5132 posts

    I thought I mentioned it, but maybe I didn't...roll me over. My OPKs and BBT are in the mail, set to arrive tomorrow. Let's get KU! lol.

  20. Mrs. J

    pomelo / 5132 posts

    @ash: How awful! I can't believe she'd even verbalize that competition, much less think that way!

  21. MapleMoose

    grapefruit / 4213 posts

    @ms.janedoe: LOL yes!

    @Ash: The nerve of some people! Btw, I think the onesie idea is super cute and she will appreciate it.

    ____ My new POAS date is 1/21 ____

  22. MamaMagpie

    persimmon / 1436 posts

    Lots of love and hugs to the recent rollovers!

    @ash: @mrstiz: those SILs of yours are crazy! Obviously super self-absorbed and insecure. You are so much nicer than them, so that's the best "revenge"

    @lindsayinnyc: I'm still crossing my fingers and toes for you!

  23. MamaMagpie

    persimmon / 1436 posts

    @ash: that onesie is seriously adorable and such a great gift! Not offensive at all! They will love it

  24. LindsayInNY

    bananas / 9229 posts

    @MamaMagpie - Aww, thanks! I started a post on peoples cycle length post-BC which is kinda discouraging =/

  25. LindsayInNY

    bananas / 9229 posts

    @Ash - Is SIL open about her fertility issues or has it been a secret? If open then I think the onesie is absolutely perfect!

  26. Cherrybee

    papaya / 10570 posts

    @Ash: I love the onesie idea! I think it's super cute and, providing she is open about her struggles as pps have said, I think it's actually quite a touching gift.

  27. Ash

    honeydew / 7909 posts

    @runnerd: @doxielove: @Thehistoryofus: @MapleMoose: @MamaMagpie: @LindsayInNYC: @Cherrybee: She wasn't super open about it... DH's mom usually filled us in... So you think no? That's why I thought I'd ask you girls. DH and I both love it but she's been quite secretive. She didn't even tell US that she was pregnant until after 12 weeks. Hmmm...

    @MamaMagpie: that's why I keep my mouth shut. I don't like to ruffle feathers... even if mine get ruffled by keeping quiet.

  28. mlm2934

    grapefruit / 4311 posts

    @Ash: hmmm I dunno, maybe you could ask your MIL if she thinks that your SIL would be sensitive to this - I still think she would think it was sweet and so true, but guess its better to be safe than sorry

  29. T.H.O.U.

    wonderful clementine / 24134 posts

    @Ash: I think the onesie would be cute even without trouble ttc.

  30. marionberry

    pomelo / 5041 posts

    @Ash: Agreed. When I was going through infertility struggles I saw a onesie just like that and said to DH, I can't wait to buy one of these one day. I can't see her having a problem with it. Even someone who hadn't struggled should still like it, because it could take it account that you grew up, got married, and then finally got lucky with your baby....aka it took awhile.

  31. Ash

    honeydew / 7909 posts

    @Thehistoryofus: @marionberry: Thanks ladies! I've been eyeing it for a while... I think it's perfect either way!

  32. singingbee

    pomelo / 5073 posts

    @Ash: I think it's a precious onesie!

  33. Pirouette

    pomegranate / 3331 posts

    Hey girls! I'm new here, and new to TTC as well! This is my first month off bcp and I'm pretty sure I haven't ovulated yet (today is cd15), I'm not temping but am using opks and trying to check cm as well. So far I've had 2 almost as dark as the control opks (sat night and tonight) but no positive. I realize it could be a while before my body regulates.

    Just wanted to introduce myself and say congrats to all the bfps already this month!!!

    @Ash: I think it's adorable!

  34. marionberry

    pomelo / 5041 posts

    @esqbee: Welcome and good luck!

  35. BSB

    hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts

    @Ash: I think it is really really cute. As someone who is currently going through infertility, I think it's a cute idea but I think I might be offended if it came from a particular person. This person isn't someone who am on good terms on 100% of the time. We have our moments, sometimes our friendship is good and sometimes not so good. Like maybe they are telling me that my impatience in the past was unneccessary. I know it sounds crazy but infertilty has made me really nutso sometimes. If I got this from a good friend, I would love it. It would be perfect. If I got it from a friend who constantly told me to be patient (as she popped out one to three kids) then I might not take it so positively. Sorry to be a downer. Very cute shirt, though.

  36. JamieLee

    clementine / 930 posts

    @Ash: I think that onesie is really cute. I actually pinned a similar onesie after our m/c to order when we get a sticky baby:
    http://www.uncommongoods.com/product/worth-the-wait-babysuit-hat

  37. SweetMamaM

    pear / 1743 posts

    Gee, I go away on honeymoon and you all go and get pregnant on me! So excited for all of you, especially @Mrs squirreld: my longer cycle buddy! So glad it had a positive result for you!

    AFM, I finally got AF on the second to last day of our honeymoon on CD 76!! Timing could have been worse and really I'm just so relieved to be able to try again! I'll be POASing in February all going to plan. O vibes definitely welcome here!

  38. ladybee

    grapefruit / 4079 posts

    12dpo and a BFN. Not feeling very hopeful, AF is expected on Thursday.

  39. T.H.O.U.

    wonderful clementine / 24134 posts

    @ladybee: Aww so sorry you still have a BFN but keep waiting for AF!

    I am starting to SS even though I think we didn't have good timing this month. AF isn't due until next week and due to wacky CM I'm not even sure when I Od. Its going to be a long 10 days!

  40. MapleMoose

    grapefruit / 4213 posts

    @Ash: I can only speak for myself, but if it were me, I'd be sooooo happy to finally have a sticky baby that I'd see that onesie and yell "EXACTLY!!!" lol

    @SweetMamaM: *whew* that was a long cycle. So glad you can finally try again! Hope your honeymoon was fabulous. Where did you go?

    @ladybee: Boooo to your BFN. But at least you're not out yet!

    @Thehistoryofus: Ahhh I hear ya. I was sick right around O and got some weird CM this cycle too. I temp also but I think that was off because of the illness.

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