Have you written a will? I got into a discussion with a friend the other day who is pg with her 2nd and she was advising me about "one of the other things" i should do is write a will.

i certainly agree with her but hadn't thought about it. if you do have a will, who have you willed your child/children to? DH and I discussed it the other night and it is very difficult for us. He does not have reliable/dependable family who we would want to raise the children around, and although my mom is fantastic-she is not financially savvy and we do not approve of her boyfriend. Dad and stepmom would be great...but they are getting much older in age and would be quite a burden. We aren't too sure about getting friends involved, even close ones...and no other siblings. Hopefully it's never needed, but scary to have to think about these things!