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According to my midwife, babies don't really form habits until between four and six months old. At the moment it's hormones / chemicals like oxytocin that are knocking baby out while feeding and the fact that it's also hard work for a newborn! It really only becomes a problem if nursing is the only way LO knows how to go to sleep and it becomes a prop for them.

At two weeks old you're still in survival mode so don't sweat it!

ETA Enjoy those sleepy snuggles while you can, there's nothing quite like it and baby loves being close to you

Definitely don't worry about it yet! For her first three months, I let M nurse whenever she wanted - and she normally fell asleep after eating. Now she will eat before naps and bedtime but she will be awake after the nursing session. You have so much time ahead of you, try not to stress about this just yet.

I always nursed my LO to sleep when he was an infant. If he wanted to nurse to sleep, we did. Then around 18 mos or so he started wanting to nurse and then have a back rub. So I did that. A few months later, he decided he'd just like the back rub, so I did that. Now he never wants to nurse before sleeping (at most he asks once a day, but he often forgets) and he's 2.5 years old. He still likes a back rub (who doesn't?) at night. He also goes to sleep fairly fast and sleeps like a rock through the night.

My feeling is this: If you set up a "habit" of nursing the baby to sleep in infancy, you could be stuck with it for a while, but certainly not forever. (If I had to hazard a guess, I'd say around 2 years.) All human beings figure out how to go to sleep and stay asleep. I don't think that the biological need for sleep can be messed up by nursing an infant down, although you are taking on some "extra" duties for a limited time unless you're willing to break the nursing "habit" without LO's buy-in.

I was reading about the EASY method on Noob Mommy (http://noobmommy.com/2008/12/easy-routine-from-baby-whisperer.html) and it looks you could try it starting around 4 weeks, though she says the key is to be flexible.

I'm not a mom yet but I feel like I see people start to mention around 4-6 months that they're ready to sleep train and it's really hard because the baby wants nurse to sleep at every wake up.