My daughter is 16 months old and has known the sign for milk since she was little. We are trying to wean her some from breastfeeding (I would like to be done between 18-24 months). We are doing good dropping nursings here and there but sometimes she gets so frantic and just wants to nurse she claws at my chest and reaches down my shirt. I really hate this. I know she just nurses at this point for comfort especially when she is tired.

Is it unfair to her to tell her no sometimes but let her nurse other times? Should we just stop cold turkey at this point?