How's that for a catchy title Anyway, my husband was not circumcised as a baby but had to be around 4 years old due to scar tissue. We now know that it is not recommended that a baby's foreskin be pulled back and cleaned. This is something my MIL did 25 years ago and my husband unfortunately had problems because of it. My MIL doesn't recognize that the problems were caused by pulling the foreskin back too early. My son is not circumcised and I do not want her to try to clean under his foreskin when changing him, but she is very much a know it all. How do I tell her to back off without blaming her for my husband needing surgery...I don't think that would go over well...