cherry / 131 posts
@shellio: congratulations!
@amreis: That is why I delete my history periodically. I'm worried DH would have me committed if he saw it.
pomegranate / 3580 posts
@shellio Congrats!
So it turns out that I ovulated last Monday! I had originally discarded the temp thinking it was off since I haven't ovulated that early since I've been temping. It's a nice surprise to already be 8 DPO! Must be the B Complex I'm taking to lengthen LP?! FF changed my POAS date to this Saturday the 9th, too
pomegranate / 3331 posts
@Beetones: BOO for AF! that sucks, sorry
but yay for POAS 2x in a month! I too haven't had a chance to POAS since January!
@MrsH: Yes! i had a little identity crisis, haha. i don't really have any reason for changing, just felt like changing things up, and thought it was best to do it now than when i've been on here so long that it really confuses people!
clementine / 825 posts
@BlueberryPie: Sorry to hear about your BFN. This is our first month trying too, and as much as I don't expect for it to happen right away, I am sure I would feel disappointed too. I hope next month is your month!
bananas / 9229 posts
@Pirouette: Yay for no POASing since January - you and I can be in the skipped month category
pomegranate / 3331 posts
@LindsayInNYC: ha yay! as much as i'd like to be able to POAS every month, at least neither of us is alone
cherry / 235 posts
Ohhh ladies...my mind is racing right now. 6DPO and having some little twinges that feel like a little leprachuan is stabbing me with a hot poker! lol!! They could be nothing...ORRRRRR.....
persimmon / 1331 posts
@whatsarahsaid: haha! Laughing at the visual of the leprechaun!! I'm right there with you... Wishful thinking or something more? Ugh. The two week wait is torture (and I'm only on my second cycle of it!!)
apricot / 367 posts
@whatsarahsaid: This is me EVERY month. I wish men got it. My husband is always giving me the side look during every TWW wondering what psuedo-symptom I am playing out in my head.
@Emsmems: I hope this cycle ends in a BFP for you! The symptoms get wilder and grander with each cycle I swear.
persimmon / 1491 posts
DH came home last night and told me a good friend of ours and his wife are pregnant...i started balling, to him it may seem like nothing but, and told him i was happy for them but it felt like someone was squezzing my heart...i told him i didnt want to ever hear of other people being pregnant...i couldnt even finish my dinner, i felt i was going to gag...
does hearing of other women getting pregnant ever get easy when you are TTC???
apricot / 367 posts
@MrsCastro: Sadly it really doesn't. It tends to get harder the longer you are TTC too. My cousin just got knocked up accidentally and I started bawling too. Here I am trying my hardest to get pregnant, have four losses under my belt and my cousin gets what I have wanted on accident. It's tough. You want to be happy, but it's okay to feel that pain. Hugs dear.
persimmon / 1491 posts
@mrsdoily: i guess making your heart understand that for some things "accidentaly" happen, and for others of us, it is a journey like some sort of "test"...i have found myself lately asking what i have done in this universe so wrong that i would be punished this way??? and all i can answer myself is that THIS IS MY JOURNEY, and that is theirs...it still doesnt sting any less...but i feel i have to repeat that to myself anytime i questions anything...
honeydew / 7909 posts
@MrsCastro: *hugs* my heart sinks every time I hear someone else is pregnant. My mom said it's going to seem like everyone around me is pregnant... and it's exactly true. It depends on the person... my neighbor announced and I was happy. My friend announced and I was happy. My sil announced and I cried and cried (mainly because getting pregnant is a competition for her). I just wanna give you a great big hug!!
persimmon / 1491 posts
@Ash: thank you!!! one day we will have to meet for coffee!!! even if we are on opposite ends..
honeydew / 7667 posts
@MrsCastro: after losing my dad and our baby I often think things aren't fair and if this is some kind of test or because of the person I am then I think that is shitty.
Three of Dhs and my cousins are KU right now so I get how you are feeling and I'm sorry you have to go through it. Big hugs.
honeydew / 7909 posts
@MrsCastro & @MrsH: that's exactly what I've been telling myself too! I'm not a mean. I'm nice to everyone. I don't want to be pregnant to compete with someone else. I'm married and stable. Yet, I've suffered a miscarriage and have a broken heart because of it while people that are the opposite of me have baby after baby. *sigh* Hugs to you both!!
@MrsCastro: yes!! we will!
persimmon / 1491 posts
@MrsH: i am sorry for you losses too!!! i had a miscarriage in August and then lost my dad in november...so last year sucked...
honeydew / 7667 posts
@Ash: exactly how I feel.
@MrsCastro: *sigh* I wish bad things didn't happen to good people. I lost my dad in 2011 and baby in July 2012 so I feel like I've had several bad years in a row at this point. I try to think that my dad is going to help us get our rainbow baby because I know he is watching out for us.
Crap - just made myself start balling - awesome
persimmon / 1491 posts
@MrsH: i feel the same way about my dad...i am sorry, please dont cry....
honeydew / 7909 posts
@MrsH: Awe, sweetie!! I wish I could jump through the internet and hug you! I'm so sorry you're feeling sad!! Your dad will definitely bring you your rainbow baby!! No doubt about that!!
honeydew / 7667 posts
@MrsCastro: we probably think that because our Dads were great Dads so that makes me happy too.
@Ash: thanks lady.
I'm in for a coffee date with you ladies
you are the best.
honeydew / 7909 posts
@MrsH: & @MrsCastro: I have grown so much from having a miscarriage... something I never thought could happen to me. And because of it, I have been able to connect with you ladies and I am forever grateful for it. :))
persimmon / 1491 posts
@MrsH: yes, especially since I am/was a daddy's girl. Makes my heart hurt to know I won't ever see them interact. But I know my dad is watching over along with my angel and praying for us.
honeydew / 7667 posts
@Ash: agreed, sorry it had to be because of our m/cs but so glad to have met you ladies.
@MrsCastro: me too, total daddy's girl. Agreed that it hurts to know he wont interact with future LO but nice to think he was there to great baby and both are watching over all of us.
clementine / 825 posts
@MrsH and @MrsCastro I understand how you ladies feel! DH and I got married in June 2011 and my dad passed in July 2011. I was a totally daddy's girl as well (my mom passed in 2006) and it's definitely hard for me as we are TTC and I think that our future child won't get to meet his or her grandparents and I'll never see them interact. It's hard to believe there are three of this on here. Hopefully it is a sign and they are watching over us as we go through this journey.
apricot / 367 posts
@MrsCastro: That is a very wise mantra to have in these cases! I know that pregnancy is not supposed to be a competition in any means, but it still doesn't keep me from getting that twinge when it happens so easily to others.
@MrsH: @Ash: @MrsCastro: @Cara M. 17: I'm so sorry to hear that all of you have lost your fathers recently. I lost my dad in November of 2011, only three months before my wedding and it was devastating. My niece was born the day after he passed and I know my brother was so lost that my father would never get to meet her, though I like to think that he got to meet her before she came to the earth.
pomegranate / 3331 posts
My heart goes out to all of you!! I have not had to endure those struggles so I don't have anything profound to add to this discussion but I just wanted to say that sometimes life just isn't fair, and I really feel for you girls
hugs all around! And bfp dust!
honeydew / 7909 posts
@T.H.O.U.: yeah!
it's right on track for cd20!
@PIROUETTE: I'm on it! Adios ladies!
persimmon / 1331 posts
@Ash: whoo hoo! Have fun tonight (and maybe a few more after that!).
Fx for you!
honeydew / 7667 posts
@Cara M. 17: @mrsdoily: so sorry ladies. They are definitely looking down us.
@Ash: I'm not sure how to type out buowm-chicka-wowowwww but you get the picture. I o'ed today too
pear / 1743 posts
@MrsH: @mrsdoily: @Cara M. 17: @MrsCastro: I feel your pain. It sounds terrible but I kind of feel like that having my mum die the month after our wedding after a long battle with cancer was all the bad luck we're entitled to have right now. Then with the complicated cycles and everything, it feels like God is toying with me
All I want is a baby, why is that so much to ask?
Grrrr... I'm just in a cruddy mood. Hopefully this, combined with the headache I currently have is AF on the way... No baby but at least then we would have another chance at trying.
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