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I think that's a really nice, thoughtful idea. I will say that sometimes people get worried about "reminding" us that we've had miscarriages, but you don't need to worry about that. Especially if it's relatively recent, it's not like she forgot. And it's also very thoughtful that you remembered her baby's due date. However, I will say that whether she would want to wear jewelry to remind herself of the due date is obviously very personal. I definitely would not want that for myself, as someone who has had multiple losses. I would probably just make sure to reach out right before or on that day to let her know that you remember and are thinking about her.

I think that's really thoughtful. I've debated buying myself a piece of jewelry to commemorate my loss but I can't seem to decide. If someone gifted something to me I would really treasure it and be so grateful to that person. I know everyone processes things differently, and for me there would be days I would feel especially inclined to wear the bracelet, and days when I just wouldn't. But really I think the hardest part is feeling that people close to me have forgotten. I think this is a kind way to communicate you haven't forgotten her or her baby. And especially shows that you're there for her to talk about it if she needs to.

I see you didn't go with the birth stone, but I was going to echo the same sentiments. I've had 2 losses and would not want a birthstone alone sort of reminder. Birthstone ring/ necklace/ bracelet to me represents an actual birth. For my losses, I got angel wing charm for a bracelet. If the wing had a birthstone in it, i think I'd be ok with that too.
I think the morse code due date is a great idea too.