I was thinking about getting necklaces like this for my mom and MIl for Mother's Day. It has initial for all 3 grandkids. Last time I gave my MIL a necklace from etsy she told me she didn't like it. I'm still planning on getting this for my mother. Do I go ahead and buy one for MIL knowing she will complain? Get her flowers (complained about as well)? Or just a card? I can never win....