apricot / 311 posts
@QBbride: i don't think so. the earliest i've ever ovulated was CD22, the 2 cycles before that were both CD24. I've been doing opks the past few months and they've been negative so far since i O'd last cycle. So weird.
apricot / 311 posts
@travellingbee: i feel ya. I've been so bummed lately as well, for some reason i thought for sure i would get pregnant within the first three months of trying and now since that clearly didn't happen i'm just sad all the time. Even my husband asks what wrong when he can tell I'm bummed out. I know everyone says it will happen when its meant to but its still so frustrating watching everyone around you get pregnant so easily. Feel free to vent, i know i do here and it does help a little when you can't really say anything to anyone in real life. *hugs*
kiwi / 631 posts
@MissLace: Yes to everything you said! I was so hopeful during my last cycle (4th). I feel like I've pretty much given up this cycle. I know it can take up for a year for a healthy couple to get pregnant, but after watching plenty of couples get pregnant just like that I have to wonder, is their something wrong with me? Will I ever conceive? The thought of not is just so depressing.
kiwi / 673 posts
@MissLace: @auggiefrog: Same here. Blah. This is month 6 for me, but only cycle 3. Still no O. It's really hard to be positive and pretend like nothing's wrong.
pomelo / 5791 posts
BFP's!!!! : eko! mrs.kmm! jess1483! tarheelbee! desertdreams88! mrskmm! chaosmaven! reese!
POAS Dates
TBD: Hoots, jaguar, tam
10/8: jone0603
10/9: lalalove
10/19: mrs. j. mrs_cc
10/20: northstar, qbbride
10/22: travellingbee, mrsstar
10/23: simplyfelicity, jennyg
10/24: rms2012
10/25: eleanorrigby, amommythang
10/26: mrsads
10/27: tidybee
10/30: runnergirl
10/31: angelachase
Rollover to November: auggiefrog, worrywart, mrs. microscope, misslace, yogirunner, willow, bluemasonjar, abmamma, hellobeeboston, ballerinabee, ashleyf21, mrs scrapbook
Cheerleaders: mrsmccarthy, raspberries, mrschickpea, redeyedtreefrog
pomelo / 5791 posts
I was wondering if someone else would mind stepping up and updating this board?
I had a major temp drop this morning (below my coverline), so I'm going to be out. It's just....too hard to keep doing this for me right now.
I'm not going to be rolling over, because I'm no longer going to be POAS/charting/etc. I think we may be going to NTNP route for awhile...this is just too much emotionally for me to handle.
pear / 1881 posts
I've been following, but haven't had time to post. But, I'm out AF came last night. Onto cycle #14 or so...
nectarine / 2641 posts
@ValentineMommy: oh Hun, I'm so sorry. I can do it unless someone else wants to. I'm so sorry. I totally understand. So much love to you!
cantaloupe / 6634 posts
@ValentineMommy: I am so sorry, friend. Ugh...TTC after miscarriage is so hard. Many, many hugs. I will gladly take over the list.
cantaloupe / 6634 posts
BFP's!!!! : eko! mrs.kmm! jess1483! tarheelbee! desertdreams88! mrskmm! chaosmaven! reese!
POAS Dates
TBD: Hoots, jaguar, tam
10/8: jone0603
10/9: lalalove
10/19: mrs. j. mrs_cc
10/20: qbbride
10/22: travellingbee, mrsstar
10/23: simplyfelicity, jennyg
10/24: rms2012
10/25: eleanorrigby, amommythang
10/26: mrsads
10/27: tidybee
10/30: runnergirl
10/31: angelachase
Rollover to November: auggiefrog, worrywart, mrs. microscope, misslace, yogirunner, willow, bluemasonjar, abmamma, hellobeeboston, ballerinabee, ashleyf21, mrs scrapbook, Northstar
Cheerleaders: mrsmccarthy, raspberries, mrschickpea, redeyedtreefrog
cantaloupe / 6634 posts
@NorthStar: I am sorry you are out. Wishing you all the best in November.
pomelo / 5132 posts
BFN this morning. According to Ff, I am 12dpo, but I think I am really 10dpo. I didn't get my bfp last time until 13dpo, but I still am not super optimistic this cycle
pear / 1788 posts
@ValentineMommy: Hugs
@Reese: I sure hope that baby stays put! Keep us updated!
pomegranate / 3521 posts
@Mrs. Microscope: I took a digital and it came up and seeing the words "pregnant" were comforting but I just started feeling lower back cramping so I'm fearing it's a chemical... I guess I can only wait and see.
pomegranate / 3764 posts
I know my chart is up because I'm on progesterone, but all negatives so far. I guess I'm still hanging out for that miracle transfer to have worked, even though we just don't get that lucky.
cantaloupe / 6634 posts
@jaguar: I am so sorry things aren't looking positive right now. Hugs.
cantaloupe / 6634 posts
@MrsADS: I am so sorry. Beat wishes in the future. Did tour RE give you a any next steps?
cantaloupe / 6634 posts
BFP's!!!! : eko! mrs.kmm! jess1483! tarheelbee! desertdreams88! mrskmm! chaosmaven! reese!
POAS Dates
TBD: Hoots, jaguar, tam
10/8: jone0603
10/9: lalalove
10/19: mrs. j. mrs_cc
10/20: qbbride
10/22: travellingbee, mrsstar
10/23: simplyfelicity, jennyg
10/24: rms2012
10/25: eleanorrigby, amommythang
10/27: tidybee
10/30: runnergirl
10/31: angelachase
Rollover to November: auggiefrog, worrywart, mrs. microscope, misslace, yogirunner, willow, bluemasonjar, abmamma, hellobeeboston, ballerinabee, ashleyf21, mrs scrapbook, Northstar, mrsads
Cheerleaders: mrsmccarthy, raspberries, mrschickpea, redeyedtreefrog
grape / 86 posts
Hey all. Just popped in again. Saw I am still listed, but I posted a while ago that I am out for oct. and am moving onto November.
grapefruit / 4770 posts
@Reese: lower back pain is a major sign of pregnancy! My RE told me I, gonna have a lot of it!
cantaloupe / 6634 posts
BFP's!!!! : eko! mrs.kmm! jess1483! tarheelbee! desertdreams88! mrskmm! chaosmaven! reese!
POAS Dates
TBD: Hoots, jaguar, tam
10/9: lalalove
10/19: mrs. j. mrs_cc
10/20: qbbride
10/22: travellingbee, mrsstar
10/23: simplyfelicity, jennyg
10/24: rms2012
10/25: eleanorrigby, amommythang
10/26: mrsads
10/27: tidybee
10/30: runnergirl
10/31: angelachase
Rollover to November: auggiefrog, worrywart, mrs. microscope, misslace, yogirunner, willow, bluemasonjar, abmamma, hellobeeboston, ballerinabee, ashleyf21, mrs scrapbook, Northstar, jone0603
Cheerleaders: mrsmccarthy, raspberries, mrschickpea, redeyedtreefrog
apricot / 306 posts
Man, I am sick of TTC. My DH hates the feeling of having to "perform" and it's gotten to the point that unless the conditions are exactly right, he can't finish. If it's too quick, if we have something to do after, if it's too late, too early, etc.....nada. Last night was the second time this week. I can't really talk to friends about it but it's one of the most frustrating things I've ever experienced. I know I shouldn't feel mad at him but I do. And the more it happens the more likely it is that we'll have to do this again next month (but can't pressure him!). Ugh. Thanks for letting me vent.
pomegranate / 3192 posts
@simplyfelicity: thanks lady! I tested yesterday morning and I swear I saw a hint if a shadow but it might be my mind playing tricks on me. I bought some dollar store tests so I'm going to test later today (about to get off night shift so it'll sorta be like fmu!)
cantaloupe / 6634 posts
@QBbride: I love the dollar store cheapies! Hoping that shadow turns into a .
@travellingbee: I am so sorry.
@jaguar: I am sorry, I hope it is just too early.
cantaloupe / 6634 posts
I posted this on a different board and I truly truly don't want to make a big deal out of if but I got a faint positive yesterday pm at 12 dpo and took another this morning and still got a faint positive. I am fearing another chemical but I just have to wait it out.
cantaloupe / 6634 posts
BFP's!!!! : eko! mrs.kmm! jess1483! tarheelbee! desertdreams88! mrskmm! chaosmaven! reese! simplyfelicity
POAS Dates
TBD: Hoots, jaguar, tam
10/9: lalalove
10/19: mrs. j. mrs_cc
10/20: qbbride
10/22: mrsstar
10/23: jennyg
10/24: rms2012
10/25: eleanorrigby, amommythang
10/26: mrsads
10/27: tidybee
10/30: runnergirl
10/31: angelachase
Rollover to November: auggiefrog, worrywart, mrs. microscope, misslace, yogirunner, willow, bluemasonjar, abmamma, hellobeeboston, ballerinabee, ashleyf21, mrs scrapbook, Northstar, jone0603, travelingbee
Cheerleaders: mrsmccarthy, raspberries, mrschickpea, redeyedtreefrog
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts
@simplyfelicity: congratulations!!! I've been following your journey and am thrilled for you!
grapefruit / 4355 posts
@simplyfelicity: Congrats! My positives were definitely faint so I wouldn't stress about that too much!
nectarine / 2148 posts
@simplyfelicity: Congratulations! I also had faint positives for quite a while. Try not to worry too much!
honeydew / 7295 posts
@simplyfelicity: congrats and sticky sticky sticky dust!!!
@jaguar: hopefully just too early and a bfp is on the way. Praying for you!
clementine / 912 posts
@angelachase: I worry about this too. DH has wanted to take a "relaxed" approach to TTC which to us means I use OPKs and just tend to more into getting things going when its time. However, it doesn't always lead to BD actually happening. If I don't get a BFP this cycle, I'm going to have to talk to him about taking letting him know when we "have" to BD. I fear that the same thing that's happening to you will be me next month. Basically, no suggestions, just lots of hugs and support. At least you have here to vent!!
pomegranate / 3192 posts
@simplyfelicity: cautious congrats! That's a great line on a cheapie for 12dpo! Hey, where's the exclamation mark next to your name under the BFPs!!!
nectarine / 2148 posts
@angelachase: This has happened to me a couple times as well. DH started getting upset that BD'ing was taking the fun out of actually BD'ing. Basically I did less baby type talk and tried to make things seem more sensual then just 'having to'. When I was using opk's I never really told him that we 'had' to BD because I got a smiley face or anything. It seemed that keeping him a little more in the dark worked out better.
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