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October TTC 6+ Months Support Thread

  1. MrsStar

    nectarine / 2994 posts

    Hi ladies, I only just realised the October thread was up
    Cycle number/months TTC: 14
    Backstory: Have a 2 year old lo (who was concieved while on the pill, been trying for 14 months now, finally got pregnant back in June but miscarried.
    CD: 21 (4dpo)
    POAS date (if any): 24th October
    Plan for this cycle: We had good timing this month thanks to opks (didn't use them last month)
    What house project are you working on (if any): None! Just making shopping lists for xmas
    Favorite thing about October: The weather is finally heating up here! I put up LO's paddling pool the other day which she has been loving!

    So sorry to everyone who is out this month and good luck to everyone else waiting to test!

  2. LindsayInNY

    bananas / 9229 posts

    @MamaCate: Just sitting tight... Thursday is the day. I told DH it was dooms day and he's all optimistic. I just don't know anymore.

  3. MrsYellowJacket

    apricot / 378 posts

    @AmeliaBedilia: Good luck with your new dr! Sounds promising she's willing to test whenever you'd like

    @Tam: So sorry to hear that. I certainly agree with the others hat a second opinion is needed

    Also - hello! I'll give some quick stats as I know I'll be hanging out here for a while.

    Cycle number/months TTC: ugh. Too long (2+ years)
    Backstory: PCOS, absolutely no ovulation on my own
    CD: 4
    POAS date (if any): nope! Keeping reading
    Plan for this cycle: had panned for 3rd month of clomid with IUI. I went yesterday and have a big cyst on my ovary. Turns out OPKs aren't suitable for me. Even when they indicate "positive", I don't actually release the egg. It makes a big cyst instead My old obgyn had that suspicion (we've moved since). So we have to wait until it goes away (previously I needed surgery to remove cysts). Ugh. I've been so bummed. Lowest of my low during this process.
    What house project are you working on (if any): Ha! When treatments fail, I shop. I've redone my living room in fall colors, repainted an end table, and cleaned away!! I want living room curtains next.
    Favorite thing about October: decorating of course!!! Especially with pumpkins !

  4. MamaCate

    pomegranate / 3595 posts

    @MrsYellowJacket: welcome to our little corner! Hope your stay here is short. So sorry to hear about the cyst and the need to delay things further. Hugs to you! Please keep us posted on how things progress!

  5. MamaCate

    pomegranate / 3595 posts

    @LindsayInNY: sending you good thoughts and good luck today! Fingers crossed so hard for you!

  6. AmeliaBedilia

    nectarine / 2192 posts

    @LindsayInNY: Thinking of you and sending prayers for a good update.

  7. LindsayInNY

    bananas / 9229 posts

    To avoid cross-posting too many times in too many places, here's a rambing update:
    http://boards.hellobee.com/topic/thank-you-and-news

  8. nicole112

    apricot / 278 posts

    Joining this month a little late, lots of new stuff to fill everyone in on!

    Cycle number/months TTC: 13 months ttc (13 is my lucky number!!!)
    Backstory: DH and I started ttc in Sept. 2013 using bbt and opk's to help with timing, then in May I decided to go to the dr, did a HSG, SA, etc. All came back fairly normal. August we were referred to a RE and have been going ever since. This cycle is our first cycle of trying Clomid and today we did an IUI! It was included in our expensive package this month at the dr and figured "why not???" so there we were this morning!
    CD: 17
    POAS date (if any): BETA is on 11/4! (My parents 31st wedding anniversary!)
    Plan for this cycle: Stay as relaxed as possible, low stress!!
    What house project are you working on (if any): Ohhh, lots! I painted my front door, DH & his father rebuilt our front deck/porch, and all the finishing touches to our house reno's!
    Favorite thing about October: Pumpkin everything, the weather, the leaves changing, Halloween/fall/harvest decorations, American Horror Story

    GL to everyone this cycle, baby dust to all!!

  9. nicole112

    apricot / 278 posts

    @LindsayInNY: CONGRATULATIONS!!!!

  10. MamaCate

    pomegranate / 3595 posts

    @nicole112: so glad to read this update! You sound so positive about the iui and I am so hopeful for you! Keep us posted!!

  11. GoGoSnoGirl

    pear / 1558 posts

    @nicole112: oh I missed your update... I'm still cheering all of you 6+ month-ers on so much!! Fingers & toes crossed the IUI does it for you. Sounds like great progress!

  12. nicole112

    apricot / 278 posts

    @MamaCate: @GoGoSnoGirl: Thank you ladies!!!! The next two weeks will be an eternity!!!

  13. Bea

    kiwi / 578 posts

    @nicole112: fingers crossed for you girl!!

  14. nicole112

    apricot / 278 posts

    @eabae: Thanks girl

  15. busylizzy111

    cherry / 144 posts

    I am back! After the cancelled holiday we were able to take last week off - we went on a cruise and it was so beautiful
    No internet though, so I will have to catch up with what has been happening here.
    My cycle is really messed up this month, FF kept changing my O date... I either ovulated 4 or 7 days late, wth?

  16. ctegge0416

    cherry / 159 posts

    @nicole112: SO exciting!!! Fingers crossed for you this month!

  17. organicmama

    cherry / 230 posts

    Hi ladies, just checking in cuz I missed yall! So we did our second and final round of clomid in August. Had to stop there because I changed jobs and lost insurance. (DH and I are using these last few months of the year to pay off debt so we can afford the expensive Healthcare for those of us whose employers don't offer it ) Anyway, when AF arrived in September, I was sitting in my new hair stylist's chair when she started telling me how she was about to be meeting two children that she would be fostering and hopefully adopting. As she told me all about the agency and the process and her family, something in me clicked! I feel like a seed was planted. God gave me this strong desire to love on kids! So whether or not he gives us any more, I want to use this desire for good. I've talked to my husband and he agreed to go to an information meeting with me on Nov 4th. I'm not 100% convinced this is what we will do, but I'm certainly open to the thought.. and the meeting!

    In the meantime, we will certainly keep ttc. So that brings me to this crazy cycle. I had a negative opk on cd 15 and 16. (I didn't have anymore test strips so those are the only days I tested). Then I started spotting 5 days ago on cd 19 and continued to today, when full blown AF arrived. WTH!?!? I guess I just didn't ovulate at all thus cycle. And that made me start early?? Like a full 7 days early? I'm so frustrated with my body. I'm going to call the RE we were seeing tomorrow and ask, but really since we're uninsured at the moment, I doubt I will get any real answers. Sigh.

    Sorry for the book. It's just been awhile and I had so much to share with my girls!

    @lindsayinny: I posted it on your original thread but I am seriously thrilled for you. You gave me hope! And I'm sure there are many others that feel the same way

  18. organicmama

    cherry / 230 posts

    @nicole112: exciting! A little impromptu IUI?! Love it

  19. Miss Sarah

    persimmon / 1259 posts

    CD 1 here, on to the next month! IUI #2 did not take for us. I'm totally bummed and pretty much heartbroken. The only redeeming thing about today was that the class I subbed for today was awesome, the kids were loving and it made me extra happy for my career change. I'm trying to focus on the positives in my life. My OB is referring us to an RE and in the meantime, I will have one last IUI with them. I was really hoping this month was our month...

  20. AmeliaBedilia

    nectarine / 2192 posts

    @organicmama: Sending prayers that things work out the way that is best for you and your family.

    @sarahnicole218: Big hugs! So disappointed for you. Be good to yourself!

    5DPO here. I've been MIA- I was out of town for work for a week. We missed two key days, so we got O-4, O-1, O and O +1. I am telling myself that it won't happen without femara so I don't get my hopes up.

  21. GoGoSnoGirl

    pear / 1558 posts

    @organicmama: that's so awesome that you had this new seed planted!! I totally believe we have certain people come into our lives at different times to teach us things or help guide our way. It's great you are open to the options that may be our there for you in order to love more children.

    @sarahnicole218: I'm sorry to hear your IUI didn't work. Good luck on the final IUI & with the RE.

  22. nicole112

    apricot / 278 posts

    @organicmama: I agree with @GoGoSnoGirl with believing different people come into your life at certain times for a certain reason. Good luck on Nov 4!!

    @sarahnicole218: I'm so sorry to hear the IUI was not a success Good luck with the next one!! Thinkkng of you!

    @AmeliaBedilia: GL! I'm one day ahead of you..6 dpo over here...time is totally dragging!!

  23. busylizzy111

    cherry / 144 posts

    @organicmama: [:heart:]

    @sarahnicole218: oh no, so sorry! Big hugs!

    with my weird cycle, I am either DPO 5 or 8... or I did not ovulate at all. Such a strange month!

  24. MamaCate

    pomegranate / 3595 posts

    @busylizzy111: welcome back! Sounds like a fun trip! Sorry your cycle has been confusing--I had one of those last month and am pretty sure I didnt actually o. Hope things smooth out for you!

    @organicmama: great to hear from you and I agree with others about fortuitous timing. Keep us posted about the meeting next week too! I am a therapist for kids in foster care so I would be happy to talk with you more at some point if you want. It is something we hope to do in the future too.

    @AmeliaBedilia: sounds like pretty good timing! It is hard to deal with the cycle of hope and disappointment so do whatever you have to do!

    Afm, FF and I have had some disagreements over my chart but I think we now agree I o'ed on cd16 which puts me at 3dpo. At first it had me at cd12 which is really early for me. Timing wasn't perfect but we managed to get O-3, O-2 abd O+1. I am feeling a little hopeful but trying to guard my heart too. Good thing Halloween is coming soon to distract me!

  25. nicole112

    apricot / 278 posts

    Guys, this TWW is killing me. I'm 9DPIUI. I go for a beta on Tuesday and time is draggggggging! I had creamy cm today...didn't think much of it...but then I thought that it was more than usual at the stage of the month. I went to Dr. Google and they told me its an early sign of pregnancy. But I'm probably overthinking it all! Who else is in their TWW and how are they doing???

  26. MamaCate

    pomegranate / 3595 posts

    @nicole112: ooh you are almost there! I know it is hard but I would try not to symptom spot too much--I feel like almost anything could be a sign of being KU or just of AF coming. Of course, I hope it is KU for you!

    I am 5dpo and my temps spiked considerably so I think I did actually o this month which is encouraging. Temp dip yesterday and then back up today. There are too many variables to read too much into it though: toddler night weaklings, having a cold, the temp in the house dropping, etc etc. so I am just trying to be distracted until AF is late...

  27. nicole112

    apricot / 278 posts

    Omg guys...I've never ever ever ever got a positive BFP and I woke up this morning and asked DH if I should just take a test...today is 10DPIUI and I said it could be early so it'll prob be negative but let's just seeee...and we thought our minds were playing tricks on us...but I think I see something!! What do you think??!!



  28. GoGoSnoGirl

    pear / 1558 posts

    @nicole112: I can't tell on my phone, & I'm of no help with Wondfos, but I'm squeezing my fingers crossed so tightly for you!!!

  29. MrsStar

    nectarine / 2994 posts

    @nicole112: I think I see something! Keep us posted!

  30. dc yoga bee

    grapefruit / 4770 posts

    @nicole112: take a frer in the morning!!

  31. nicole112

    apricot / 278 posts

    @GoGoSnoGirl: thanks girl! @MrsStar: thanks will do!@dc yoga bee: I definitely will.

    So impatient me was quite antsy at work all day just wanting to go home to test again and here is the 2nd test I took on a wondfo. I will do a frer in the am! This line is darker...nervous and excited at the same time!



  32. MamaCate

    pomegranate / 3595 posts

    @nicole112: that one I can see and looks promising! Eeeeeek! Fingers crossed so hard for you! I will be looking for your frer update tomorrow!

  33. MrsMccarthy

    honeydew / 7295 posts

    @nicole112: ahhh that is totally positive! Happy Halloween BFP! Go get yourself a FRER but mostly have a happy and healthy 9 months because I think that you are pregnant! ❤

  34. MrsStar

    nectarine / 2994 posts

    @nicole112: I definitely see it on that one! Can't wait to see the frer!

  35. nicole112

    apricot / 278 posts

    Okay guys...here is the frer along with another wondfo. It's super faint but there's a line there!! My phone camera wasn't focusing too well. But I see a line! I see a line! Thanks ladies!!!





  36. dc yoga bee

    grapefruit / 4770 posts

    @nicole112: you're pregnant my friend!!!!!!!!!!! Enjoy enjoy enjoy! I am so very happy for you!!!

  37. nicole112

    apricot / 278 posts

    @dc yoga bee: I think I'm in pure shock! I can't believe this is happening!! Thank you!!!

    It has been such a journey. I cannot thank you ladies enough for the love and support!! I go for my beta on Tuesday. I'll feel better when it's doctor confirmed! I feel so excited and so nervous all in one! Crazy feeling. Here's another pic...it seems to be a bit better. Sorry for all the pics!!



  38. nicole112

    apricot / 278 posts

    @MamaCate: thanks love! @MrsMccarthy: thanks lady!! @MrsStar:

  39. GoGoSnoGirl

    pear / 1558 posts

    @nicole112: yeeehooooo!! So exciting! Congratulations & sending buckets of sticky baby dust!!

  40. AmeliaBedilia

    nectarine / 2192 posts

    @nicole112: OMG! When I logged in, I had this feeling there would be some good news on this board. So happy for you!

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