I had this with DD around the same time/age (3w) but I'm into tears and toe curling pain when he latches.

I'm hurting, like dreading feeding him, want to cut my nipples off as that would hurt less at this point.

I have earth mama nipple butter, lanolin, making sure I get him on as deep as possible.

This passed wth DD and eventually went away completely, but I already think this time it's gone on longer and the pain is much worse, my husband can't even watch him latch, says looking at me makes him weak in the knees with the pain in my face.

Needing a positive or something else to try, getting desperate. Of course fine once he is on after a minute or so.

Helppppp.