Is it ok if one partner blames the other for some infertility issues? It isn't his/her fault, infertility can be caused by environmental factors. Even if it is not, You don't have the right to blame or leave your partner. You should stand beside him/her until he is completely healed. We all must face infertility with all our strength. We need to spread awareness about this monster. I hope a good life for every woman.
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@rosy: so true, when you married your partner you married their misfortunes one should not blame them but try walking with them in this hard times. in this day and age there are many treatments that can help them out and there is counselling. they should strengthen there bond.
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It's not right to blame your partner for infertility issues. That is the time when both partners need to understand each other's emotional needs and be there for their partner. The thought of blaming the partner or leaving him/her for infertility drives me crazy to the point I would start screaming. Because I have seen this happening with many women around me. I can't stand the sight o such men/women who leave their partners in such tough times and have from time to time stood by the women who had been a victim of this monster and the inhumane attitude of their partners. I am sorry if this post comes out aggressive or rude. It is not meant or directed towards any individual. But towards the sick mentality that has affected so many houses and lives around the world. It's time for us women and men who are going through such tough phase to stand by each other. Let's be the support that we all need and deserve.
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You shouldn't blame your partner for infertility but as someone who went through it, it can be difficult not to. But sometimes in IF there can be diagnoses that are male or female related. If the marriage is in a good place, there shouldn't be any blaming but more understanding. Also, Infertility is hard on a marriage. Have you considered going to marriage counseling? I think whether or not there is a male or female IF diagnosis, talking to a therapist about the doubts and fears while going through the difficult journey is best for everyone.
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@rosy: like it is said that it takes two to tango the same way fertility works and the responsibility is shared by both the partners, if you blame one of them they might feel depressed, its an emotional as well as a very personal issue that can cause a lot of heartache as well as marital problems if it is not dealt with carefully!
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@bluestriped bee: I agree with the part you mentioned that infertility is hard on marriage, yes it is definitely very hard and this is the time where you can make or break a relationship and imagine the heartache the other partner will go through if she/he has been left by the other because of this particular problem, couples should try and avoid such conflicts.
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